I think it really depends on the individual situation in each relationship. For instance, the length of the relationship would have a great bearing on how easy it is or is not.
I remember when my first boyfriend and I broke up, it was kinda hard but I was kinda selfish I guess in the reason for breaking up with him. He was a real
dirt of the earth far boy. He had been my best freinds boyfriend during the first part of sixth grade and she broke up with him and later that year (with her blessing) he and I begin dating (well if you could call it that) we talked on the phone for hours everyday. I dated him all that year and all year my seventh grade year, he was really good to me and no doubt he was crazy about me but somethng just was'nt right. I still went with him throughout the eigth grade year and I was becoming like a part of his family . His mom and dad and his
thirteen brothers and sisters all liked me. My Mom was crazy about him . Eveery year on my birth day I for three years in a roll I got the same present from him (a bracelt with my name engraved on it, kinda weird like how many damn bracelets can one person wear.
Anyway as the story goes I started my freshman year of highschool and made lots of new friends and my friends were just to goody two shoes for this farm boy that worked his a** off on the farm everyday, he did'nt have the best of clothes because his family was poor. I ended up breaking up with him to go out with a junior football player. It was really hard on him but it seems that I did'nt give it a second thought. He dropped out of school in the 9th grade and I often wondered if it was
really so that he could work on the farm for his father.
I stayed in touch with him over the years and every year I always got the bracelet even though we were'nt dating.
I guess when I got my heart broke a few years later I finally found out how bad I made him feel.