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chuckie On February 13, 2010




NoWhereVille,
#31New Post! Nov 03, 2007 @ 03:19:11
i wasn't trying to convince anyone...i asked a question... and i ranted cuz i thought that is what i could do here...i am not asking for anyone to take any sides... if i am not mistaken my 3 & forth post just expressed my concerns. the post after that sparked me w/ the porn...again... i thought this section was so that i could rant.
chuckie On February 13, 2010




NoWhereVille,
#32New Post! Nov 03, 2007 @ 03:20:44
i posted that i encourage that they spend more time...i just keep expressing that i have CONCERNS about the overnite stays... i keep giving extra time for both to bond...
clurrby On June 06, 2008




Liverpool, United Kingdom
#34New Post! Nov 03, 2007 @ 03:22:02
You can rant, no one said you cant... But remember this is a forum where people air their views about what other people have posted/said.
jeanettesianrachel On September 16, 2016




Medway, United Kingdom
#35New Post! Nov 03, 2007 @ 03:28:31
i have full custody over my 2 but there teenagers now,when it was going to court about the kids,he looked after them one day whilst i worked and took them round the shops buying painkillers and drink and told the kids he was going to sleep for a long time,they do see him but he expects to have them everyweek end and holiday,and with the one whos stayed on at school cos his flat is nearer the school,i would never had gone for joint custody,when we both seperated he was living with a male friend of mine,i used to take them round every sat and he used to say you can take them barstards back with you.so even though i dont have it its not always a good thing,he had it with his first wife and even told the youngest one who was then 13 we were moving far away,i didnt find that out untill yrs later from his ex first wife.
jeanettesianrachel On September 16, 2016




Medway, United Kingdom
#36New Post! Nov 03, 2007 @ 03:43:33
my ex hubby watches alot of porn,and mags i know this from living with him and by my children then 14 & 15 bringing home a really sexually acting porn mags,you could quite clearly see his erection and where it was going,and tonsil shots of the woman,he even has dvds openly to be seen of buggery,when we found out from our sons we called him round and said if he didnt lock them away the kids wont be going there again,he also used hard porn whilst at home,i have no liking for them seen one youve seen them all.
chuckie On February 13, 2010




NoWhereVille,
#37New Post! Nov 03, 2007 @ 03:45:24
@jeanettesianrachel Said
i have full custody over my 2 but there teenagers now,when it was going to court about the kids,he looked after them one day whilst i worked and took them round the shops buying painkillers and drink and told the kids he was going to sleep for a long time,they do see him but he expects to have them everyweek end and holiday,and with the one whos stayed on at school cos his flat is nearer the school,i would never had gone for joint custody,when we both seperated he was living with a male friend of mine,i used to take them round every sat and he used to say you can take them barstards back with you.so even though i dont have it its not always a good thing,he had it with his first wife and even told the youngest one who was then 13 we were moving far away,i didnt find that out untill yrs later from his ex first wife.


thank you so much jeanettesianrachel...thank you for sharing. you made my spirit feel a lil lighter... i didn't expect anyone to understand...i really got hit hard that day i did my original post & i just really wanted to let it out of me. seems i caused more of disturbance that get rid of it inside of me. i would really destroy me if many yrs later our child comes to me & tells me horrid stories about his fathers doings and that our child wound up witnessing them. i still think i am not wrong in having great concerns for our childs wellfare. my ex is not a horrible person (although some of that i said says other wise - which i am sorry for); but he DOESN'T think what he does or says & how it affects others - even his own child. thank you again for giving me a lil peace.
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