@townie_guy Said
Define disruptive.
STealing from parents is disruptive. Taking drugs under parents roof is disruptive.
If they are doing something and its not under parents roof, ie having a boyfriend who isnt JW, would you class that as disruptive enough to be thrown out. Ive seen it happen.
It has a very wide range of interpretations.
"dis·rup·tive [dis-ruhp-tiv] https://dictionary.reference.com/browse/disruptive?s=t
adjective
causing, tending to cause, or caused by disruption; disrupting: the disruptive effect of their rioting.
Origin:
1835–45; disrupt + -ive
Related forms
dis·rup·tive·ly, adverb
dis·rup·tive·ness, noun
non·dis·rup·tive, adjective"
I doubt if it happened purely for that reason, there is usually a history behind these things, that may have been, and almost certainly was, the "last straw". I wonder what the parents would say.
Were they behaving immorally with that boyfriend?
Were they being quiet about it or making a show of it in front of other children, possibly parading their "independence" as if it were a good thing?
Were they making what they were doing seem an attractive option?
There are so many variations on a theme that without knowing fully both sides of the situation I cannot judge.
I do know that if there were other children they were setting a bad example to them and that in itself could be disruptive, if it were having that sort of effect.
All I can really say is that I hope, and in want of fully knowledge of the situation trust, that the JWs concerned were not over-reacting.
Scripture doesn't mention the case of children specifically but the principle is the same as to how one part of a marriage should react in similar circumstances.
1 Corinthians 7:12-16 https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/bl/r1/lp-e?q=1+Corinthians+7%3A12-16 "But to the others I say, yes, I, not the Lord:+ If any brother has an unbelieving wife, and yet she is agreeable to dwelling with him, let him not leave her; 13 and a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and yet he is agreeable to dwelling with her, let her not leave her husband. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in relation to [his] wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in relation to the brother; otherwise, YOUR children would really be unclean,+ but now they are holy.+ 15 But if the unbelieving one proceeds to depart,+ let him depart; a brother or a sister is not in servitude under such circumstances, but God has called YOU to peace.+ 16 For, wife, how do you know but that you will save [your] husband?+ Or, husband, how do you know but that you will save [your] wife?+"
So it is always preferrable for the unbelieving one to stay within the household if possible.
However each case is different and there are aspects to each case which are unique, and which we will probably never be told by either party.