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Light_it_Up On February 28, 2013




Saipan, Northern Mariana Islan
#1New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 14:04:18
When you think of a day care, what images pop into your head? Do you se animated little children playing with lettered blocks, mini locomotives, finger paint, and puzzles while frolicking around a brightly-painted room? Do you imagine all the butterflies and rainbows and unicorns and fluffy stuff? What is that's not the whole story? What if, beneath the surface, something darker looms and waits to prey upon the ignorant?

Why was day care even begun? I mean, weren't families doing just fine with women staying behind with the kids at home? Supposedly, the reason of its beginning was to free women from the confines of the home in order to pursue a fulfilling, man-equalling career? This insinuates the idea that there is something wrong with staying in the home to be with children. How far has society fallen to come to that kind of conclusion. For a movement supposedly "for women," it's ironic that Feminism seems to take a stance belittling certain women who do not conform to their thoughts.

What happened to the pride of a woman instilling right and just principles into their children, the futures of society? For all anyone knows, someone at a day care could be filling children with ideas that could destroy not only their lives, but everyone else's, as well. "We are all winners." Really? Is that supposed to make people feel better about themselves? The statement merely gives people an excuse to think little of a loss because they "tried their best." Well, a few years back, I got second place at a competition and - pardon my language - the feeling sucked big time. I was so close to winning, but I ended up being the first place loser. Now imagine being the winner. How would it feel, after slaving endlessly to get where you are, to have everyone you beat declared a winner? There would have been no point to your effort. you might as well not work as hard since the outcome will always be the same, right? This, my comrade (or not), would be the beginning of laziness, if not clear enough yet. It's not exactly a what you'd want children to get from federally-funded education, is it?

If federally-funded, then who calls the shots? Who teaches the children? And what do they teach them? You won't really know. For all you know, some Communist/socialist in disguise as a "good guy" could be brainwashing the future of the nation right under your noses. However, if a parent were to take the responsibility to actually be a parent who cares for and "instruct a child in the way he should go," the family would know exactly who teaches a child and what exactly goes into their heads.

Then again, maybe that was the point of so-called "public education," as the federally-funded day care might as well be included in - to brainwash. Maybe I'll never surely know. Maybe you never will, either. Wouldn't it be nice to know something?
treebee On April 13, 2015
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London, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 15:35:19
A few things.

It is not a woman's sole responsibility to raise a child. Many men do a much better job of raising the kids so lets forget the 1950's mentality right now.

Secondly very few people have the luxury of choice to stay home and look after a child.

It comes right down to this, either abort the baby or accept that you will have to work your butt off and sacrifice every scrap of time that you have trying to make up for not being able to be a stay home parent.

So easy to sit back and judge, so hard to keep your head above water and try and do the right thing for everyone concerend.

So stop the sexist bulls***.
sister_of_mercy On March 11, 2015




London, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 15:51:38
Wow.
chaski On about 8 hours ago
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Tree at Floydgirrl's Window,
#4New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 16:09:25
@Light_it_Up Said

When you think of a day care, what images pop into your head? Do you se animated little children playing with lettered blocks, mini locomotives, finger paint, and puzzles while frolicking around a brightly-painted room? Do you imagine all the butterflies and rainbows and unicorns and fluffy stuff? What is that's not the whole story? What if, beneath the surface, something darker looms and waits to prey upon the ignorant?


When I think of day care I remember the time when my oldest son and some little girl his age (I think they were 4) decided to compare body parts during play time.

Apparently he dropped his pants and she lifted her dress.

Everyone was mortified but me.

I thought it was the funniest thing in the world... and perfectly natural.
someone_else_again On May 20, 2021
Really. Not a dude.





, Washington
#5New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 18:03:45
What an odd thing to be said by a 17 year old. I wonder what prompted that.
floydgirrl On October 08, 2022
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#6New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 18:15:23
@someone_else_again Said

What an odd thing to be said by a 17 year old. I wonder what prompted that.



I'm guessing it's a 77 yr old thinking they're 17? Alzheimer
someone_else_again On May 20, 2021
Really. Not a dude.





, Washington
#7New Post! Feb 21, 2013 @ 18:16:25
@floydgirrl Said

I'm guessing it's a 77 yr old thinking they're 17? Alzheimer



Well...that seems feasible.
Light_it_Up On February 28, 2013




Saipan, Northern Mariana Islan
#8New Post! Feb 25, 2013 @ 12:31:37
@trebee I do agree that men and women are both capable of taking care of children well. I apologize if I seemed to ignore that idea. I also do acknowledge the fact that many parents do have to work to make ends meet; thereby making it impossible to stay at home.

However, I guess I was not as clear about my purpose as I thought I was. Nowadays, I feel that women that stay at home are being degraded for not working as hard as those that do work out of the home. Many times, those who criticize this group are those who also promote women's rights. I disagree with that way of thinking. I feel that a woman who stays at home should feel empowered to influence a whole new generation. I want people to acknowledge that staying with and educating young children at home can provide the foundation they need for a brighter future. Statistics even say that homeschoolers ranked above the 85th percentile in the nation.

As an aside, I would like to know how my post came out as sexist. I'm not sure I have a complete grasp of the concept of being sexist. Thank you for your time commenting on this post. I do appreciate honest opinions from others.


@someone_else_again @floydgirrl How exactly do I come off as a 77-year old with Alzheimer's? I don't have any of the symptoms. Is it weird for a young person to have opinions like these? How so exactly? Rather than commenting on me (an ad hominem argument), if you feel that I don't know what I'm saying, please enlighten me with your opinions on the matter.


@chaski Is that so? Do you think there was a valid reason everyone reacted that way? I guess, I would react the same way as them. Then again, it's hard to know whether they meant any harm by it, right? Since curiosity is natural to man, doing something like this at that would would probably be... natural.

I would love to know all sides of the story for future reference. Think of it as teaching someone who knows absolutely nothing. I would appreciate honest opinions on the issue.
Light_it_Up On February 28, 2013




Saipan, Northern Mariana Islan
#9New Post! Feb 25, 2013 @ 12:49:38
I apologize for the multiple postings. The site was not working with me well.
someone_else_again On May 20, 2021
Really. Not a dude.





, Washington
#10New Post! Feb 26, 2013 @ 17:28:35
@Light_it_Up Said



@someone_else_again @floydgirrl How exactly do I come off as a 77-year old with Alzheimer's? I don't have any of the symptoms. Is it weird for a young person to have opinions like these? How so exactly? Rather than commenting on me (an ad hominem argument), if you feel that I don't know what I'm saying, please enlighten me with your opinions on the matter.




I feel I know exactly what you're saying. I agree with Treebee. My comments still stand. They are odd for a 17 year old, most young people do not share your opinion.

I still wonder what prompted that. Are you a day-care worker? Are you a mom? Are you mad at your mom for taking you to day care?
JorieJukebox On January 29, 2024
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Right Here, Not There,
#11New Post! Feb 26, 2013 @ 19:17:45
I think the only moms who get 'degraded' are the ones who stay at home and collect babies and checks from the state. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with a mom who chooses to stay home to take care of her child(ren). Not all of us have that luxury.
I was lucky enough to be able to move back to my Mom's when I was pregnant. I planned on going back to work after my maternity leave was up, however, I FELL IN LOVE with my son! And my Mom gave me that option to stay home.
I have since gone back to work and am making a home for my little family, and yes, he now goes to daycare. I've made myself familiar with the center and its employees and am confident my son is not being brainwashed to become the next Hitler.
Light_it_Up On February 28, 2013




Saipan, Northern Mariana Islan
#12New Post! Feb 27, 2013 @ 09:55:30
@someone_else_again Said

They are odd for a 17 year old, most young people do not share your opinion.

I still wonder what prompted that. Are you a day-care worker? Are you a mom? Are you mad at your mom for taking you to day care?


What kind of opinions do most people my age have? I just felt like I needed to question how most people think. What is most commonly thought is not always what is right, after all. I guess, it all depends on how and what we're taught over the years. I, personally, think it's important for the parent to be actively involved in their child's learning process.

It's not that I'm bitter towards day care, it's just that I'm a bit worried about how much people trust public education today, without questioning anything they teach. As children become of the age for day care, it becomes more and more crucial to provide a proper foundation. In just those few years, what children are taught at that age can influence the way they see the world for the rest of their lives. With the active participation of the parent in some way, I think that there would be a better foundation for thought since most parents really do care about their children and have legitimate emotional attachments to them, as in, it's not just a job - it's their existence as "teachers" to guide their children.
Light_it_Up On February 28, 2013




Saipan, Northern Mariana Islan
#13New Post! Feb 27, 2013 @ 10:05:58
@jorie_13 Said

I think the only moms who get 'degraded' are the ones who stay at home and collect babies and checks from the state. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with a mom who chooses to stay home to take care of her child(ren).

I have since gone back to work and am making a home for my little family, and yes, he now goes to daycare. I've made myself familiar with the center and its employees and am confident my son is not being brainwashed to become the next Hitler.


I do admit that there are those who exploit the system, and they taint the general view of stay-at-home-moms. Those parents who do stay at home have to share the same contempt because society normally generalizes ideas with the entire group.

With regards to your son, I'm really glad that you're confident in that. It's always good to be sure. I personally hope that you help to guide him in the future as much as, if not more than, any authentically caring teacher would.
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