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mixieloca On September 13, 2020




queens,
#1New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 04:19:51
Az i sat in the dv clinic, seeing other women like myself, different races and backgrounds, cryin,filling out paperwork, getting legal reports against spouses,boyfriends etc, I wondered:
WHAT IS IT THAT MAKES A MAN FORGET THAT THEIR WOMAN IS THEIR LOVER
-AT WHICH POINT DO WE BECOME PROPERTY?
-oR SOMETHING TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF USED OR THROWN AWAY?
-WHY DID LOVE BETRAY AND HURT THESE WOMEN AND MOTHERS?
-WHAT CAUSES A MAN TO THINK HE CAN BULLY WOMEN, AS IF WE ARE SOME SUBSERVIENT SLAVES OR CONCUBINES?
-uS WOMEN NEED TO STAND BE STRONG AND RISE UP BECAUSE MEN WILL ONLY DO WHAT WE ALLOW THEM TO DO TO US
hazuki0chan On July 18, 2012
Zombie Slayer





San Francisco, California
#2New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 04:23:50
this made me cry. I was victim of domestic violence. I always thought that he was a respectable guy, but he turned out to be a complete coward.
mixieloca On September 13, 2020




queens,
#3New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 04:31:34
thanx for de hug.He was a moron if he didn't respect you or treasure u. that bastard



@hazuki0chan Said

this made me cry. I was victim of domestic violence. I always thought that he was a respectable guy, but he turned out to be a complete coward.
mixieloca On September 13, 2020




queens,
#4New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 04:37:41
it sucks the different levels of intense emotions you go thru within. I used to repress so much stuff, and now im feelin them and they are so intense. Ive had feelings i never thought i had. You feel Rage, Anger, Resentment, Bitter, Pain, loss (mourning the death of the relationship) and wounds of the soul, inner scars n wounds. And the realization That you did nothing to deserve any of it is what takes the cake, and iz the most intense emotion to own up too.
C.
worpd201 On June 15, 2020
The Muffin Man.





Manistee, Michigan
#5New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 04:46:22
I know you are kind of ranting, but not all guys are like that. Sure, we all have our faults, but I can say that I have never hit a woman. I've never even raised my voice to any girlfriend I have ever had.

Still sucks that you had to go through that though.
JuanSmith On September 11, 2020
Shilsh-Aash yatasay





Near Eucalyptus Trees, Califor
#6New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 05:34:50
@mixieloca Said

Az i sat in the dv clinic, seeing other women like myself, different races and backgrounds, cryin,filling out paperwork, getting legal reports against spouses,boyfriends etc, I wondered:
WHAT IS IT THAT MAKES A MAN FORGET THAT THEIR WOMAN IS THEIR LOVER
-AT WHICH POINT DO WE BECOME PROPERTY?
-oR SOMETHING TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF USED OR THROWN AWAY?
-WHY DID LOVE BETRAY AND HURT THESE WOMEN AND MOTHERS?
-WHAT CAUSES A MAN TO THINK HE CAN BULLY WOMEN, AS IF WE ARE SOME SUBSERVIENT SLAVES OR CONCUBINES?
-uS WOMEN NEED TO STAND BE STRONG AND RISE UP BECAUSE MEN WILL ONLY DO WHAT WE ALLOW THEM TO DO TO US



some of these girls get all demented and for some reason fall for guys who are already violent.

so in most of the cases I've seen, the women for some reason are just stupid. they see something that's not there.
My mother was one of those stupid ones. so were all her sisters.

same thing with a co-worker. the guy was a total douche bag and all of us saw it except for her. they got married and then all of a sudden she began to complain about him being a d*** to her. when he was a d*** to her from the git-go.

Not saying this was your case per se.
but who knows
maybe it was
maybe some guys just act nice and what not to get what they want.
03blithe_visionary03 On July 26, 2009

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#7New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 06:17:58


I'm really sorry...another thing I don't understand and wish to change..but really can't. I hope this never happens to myself or anyone I know. I'll keep your words in my heart..maybe I can repeat them and help someone else out....
03blithe_visionary03 On July 26, 2009

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#8New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 06:20:27
@JuanSmith Said

some of these girls get all demented and for some reason fall for guys who are already violent.

so in most of the cases I've seen, the women for some reason are just stupid. they see something that's not there.
My mother was one of those stupid ones. so were all her sisters.

same thing with a co-worker. the guy was a total douche bag and all of us saw it except for her. they got married and then all of a sudden she began to complain about him being a d*** to her. when he was a d*** to her from the git-go.

Not saying this was your case per se.
but who knows
maybe it was
maybe some guys just act nice and what not to get what they want.



that's one reason for some cases. I also feel like some of these men get a sense of power from this, that they feel stronger and like they have more control...maybe some more but as I delve into it inside my mind...it disappears from my brain and I can't say anything more
Bloodshot On November 17, 2010

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in your mind, Mongolia
#10New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 06:36:38
Women with high self-esteem = Satans Harlots
Bloodshot On November 17, 2010

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in your mind, Mongolia
#11New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 06:40:19
Sorry I thought it said " amusings " not " n musings ".
MyMayBabies On October 23, 2009

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cheshire, United Kingdom
#12New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 06:40:30
@Bloodshot Said

Women with high self-esteem = Satans Harlots


satan harlot better than quivering, shaken and bloodly wreck

dont ya think?




cjm31 On July 05, 2012




Jerusalem, Israel
#13New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 06:46:34
Domestic violence should not happen to anybody. Ever. Period
Here is a site that is worth visiting there is a lot of information here
Domestic violence
sunandsurf13 On June 29, 2009

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Sydney, Australia
#14New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 10:27:28
@Bloodshot Said

Women with high self-esteem = Satans Harlots



Lol. Women with high self esteem treat themselves as well as they treat other people that's all. Ain't no crime. It's actually a smart way to live. There would be less problems in the world if more people had high self esteem.

But call confident women Satan's Harlots if it pleases you.
Bloodshot On November 17, 2010

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in your mind, Mongolia
#15New Post! Jun 04, 2009 @ 11:26:29
I was only kidding jeez
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