Az i sat in the dv clinic, seeing other women like myself, different races and backgrounds, cryin,filling out paperwork, getting legal reports against spouses,boyfriends etc, I wondered:
WHAT IS IT THAT MAKES A MAN FORGET THAT THEIR WOMAN IS THEIR LOVER
-AT WHICH POINT DO WE BECOME PROPERTY?
-oR SOMETHING TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF USED OR THROWN AWAY?
-WHY DID LOVE BETRAY AND HURT THESE WOMEN AND MOTHERS?
-WHAT CAUSES A MAN TO THINK HE CAN BULLY WOMEN, AS IF WE ARE SOME SUBSERVIENT SLAVES OR CONCUBINES?
-uS WOMEN NEED TO STAND BE STRONG AND RISE UP BECAUSE MEN WILL ONLY DO WHAT WE ALLOW THEM TO DO TO US
some of these girls get all demented and for some reason fall for guys who are already violent.
so in most of the cases I've seen, the women for some reason are just stupid. they see something that's not there.
My mother was one of those stupid ones. so were all her sisters.
same thing with a co-worker. the guy was a total douche bag and all of us saw it except for her. they got married and then all of a sudden she began to complain about him being a d*** to her. when he was a d*** to her from the git-go.
Not saying this was your case per se.
but who knows
maybe it was
maybe some guys just act nice and what not to get what they want.