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x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:00:13
I went out for drinks with some friends last night and one of my friends (who I don't actually know that well) bought me like 3 glasses of wine

Anyways then he was carrying on about how he really likes me and that I'm really pretty and he wants to get to know me more.

Then he asked me on a date

Trouble is... I don't like him like that. I don't think he's attractive :/

I don't really know what to say to him to let him down nicely, I don't want to be mean to him or hurt his feelings.

Help me TFS! Please
jmo On April 29, 2021
Beruset af Julebryg





Yorkshire, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:05:41
Just tell him you don't see him in that way. Doesn't hurt any one's feelings and it's honest.

Don't tell him the unattractive part though, just that you don't see him in that way
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:09:22
@jmo Said

Just tell him you don't see him in that way. Doesn't hurt any one's feelings and it's honest.

Don't tell him the unattractive part though, just that you don't see him in that way



Yeah I'm not gonna tell him that I think he's ugly I kinda wish I'd never accepted the glasses of wine
aquine On May 30, 2014
Psalm 2 = Rev 11:15


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Alice SPrings, Australia
#4New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:30:17
@x_Laura_x Said

I went out for drinks with some friends last night and one of my friends (who I don't actually know that well) bought me like 3 glasses of wine

Anyways then he was carrying on about how he really likes me and that I'm really pretty and he wants to get to know me more.

Then he asked me on a date

Trouble is... I don't like him like that. I don't think he's attractive :/

I don't really know what to say to him to let him down nicely, I don't want to be mean to him or hurt his feelings.

Help me TFS! Please

Why don't you agree to meet him at church on Sunday, and when the worship service is finished you can hang about for a cup of tea afterwards and then possibly go for some prayer and Scripture study afterwards?

A good worship service can get one quite hungry for the Word. You might even end up suggesting that you skip the cup of tea and get straight into the Word and prayer.

Maybe you could fast together until the next church meeting.

The Lord will direct you in the path of righteousness.

Failing all this, I would suggest the following words to your new friend.

"No, I am unable to accept your offer. Thakyou"

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

PS, perhaps he thinks your physically unattractive as well, and that's why he thinks you're made for one another.
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:33:20
@aquine Said

Why don't you agree to meet him at church on Sunday, and when the worship service is finished you can hang about for a cup of tea afterwards and then possibly go for some prayer and Scripture study afterwards?

A good worship service can get one quite hungry for the Word. You might even end up suggesting that you skip the cup of tea and get straight into the Word and prayer.

Maybe you could fast together until the next church meeting.

The Lord will direct you in the path of righteousness.

Failing all this, I would suggest the following words to your new friend.

"No, I am unable to accept your offer. Thakyou"

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

PS, perhaps he thinks your physically unattractive as well, and that's why he thinks you're made for one another.



No polite words for you
TheMightyOz On March 17, 2015
Awooga!





Luton, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:40:19
Why don't you give him a chance? You said you don't know him that well. He might turn out to be the greatest guy in the world if you get to know him. (Well, 2nd greatest after myself of course )
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 09:46:10
@TheMightyOz Said

Why don't you give him a chance? You said you don't know him that well. He might turn out to be the greatest guy in the world if you get to know him. (Well, 2nd greatest after myself of course )



"Looks may not be everything, but you can't w**k over a personality"

Sorry but he's not attractive, I'm not interested. I'm your typical shallow teenager
aquine On May 30, 2014
Psalm 2 = Rev 11:15


Banned



Alice SPrings, Australia
#8New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 10:15:33
@x_Laura_x Said

No polite words for you

That is ok. Just letting you know the nature of your mentality.

Psalm 94:22
But the LORD is my defence; and my God is the rock of my refuge.

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.
claudibeee On July 06, 2014
Pagan and proud





, United Kingdom
#9New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 10:46:07
I think jmo's right. Honesty without the unattractive bit.
Straightup On November 25, 2011




, United Kingdom
#10New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 11:15:25
@aquine Said

Why don't you agree to meet him at church on Sunday, and when the worship service is finished you can hang about for a cup of tea afterwards and then possibly go for some prayer and Scripture study afterwards?

A good worship service can get one quite hungry for the Word. You might even end up suggesting that you skip the cup of tea and get straight into the Word and prayer.

Maybe you could fast together until the next church meeting.

The Lord will direct you in the path of righteousness.

Failing all this, I would suggest the following words to your new friend.

"No, I am unable to accept your offer. Thakyou"

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

PS, perhaps he thinks your physically unattractive as well, and that's why he thinks you're made for one another.



You know Laura, I think Aquine might just be onto something here.
You want to get rid of this guy without leaving him feeling rejected don't you?

What better way than to make yourself look like the reject?
Silver_Lining On March 21, 2023
RIP Boobie





STOKE-ON-TRENT, United Kingdom
#11New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 11:57:26
@aquine Said

Why don't you agree to meet him at church on Sunday, and when the worship service is finished you can hang about for a cup of tea afterwards and then possibly go for some prayer and Scripture study afterwards?

A good worship service can get one quite hungry for the Word. You might even end up suggesting that you skip the cup of tea and get straight into the Word and prayer.

Maybe you could fast together until the next church meeting.

The Lord will direct you in the path of righteousness.

Failing all this, I would suggest the following words to your new friend.

"No, I am unable to accept your offer. Thakyou"

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

PS, perhaps he thinks your physically unattractive as well, and that's why he thinks you're made for one another.



Well you're a lively one aren't you?
Silver_Lining On March 21, 2023
RIP Boobie





STOKE-ON-TRENT, United Kingdom
#12New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 11:59:10
@aquine Said

That is ok. Just letting you know the nature of your mentality.

Psalm 94:22
But the LORD is my defence; and my God is the rock of my refuge.

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.



Go and blab about religion in the religion section- that way we don't all have to read this bull s***.
hallucinogenic_lipstick On January 25, 2022
Cocksocket.





Ely, Cambridgeshire, United Ki
#13New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 12:01:25
@aquine Said

Why don't you agree to meet him at church on Sunday, and when the worship service is finished you can hang about for a cup of tea afterwards and then possibly go for some prayer and Scripture study afterwards?

A good worship service can get one quite hungry for the Word. You might even end up suggesting that you skip the cup of tea and get straight into the Word and prayer.

Maybe you could fast together until the next church meeting.

The Lord will direct you in the path of righteousness.

Failing all this, I would suggest the following words to your new friend.

"No, I am unable to accept your offer. Thakyou"

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

PS, perhaps he thinks your physically unattractive as well, and that's why he thinks you're made for one another.



You know what Laura Acquine is absolutely right!

A good church and prayer session is what is needed in situations like these.

Your going to hell anyway because you say the C word, you very naughty woman!

boxerdc On December 18, 2012

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#14New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 12:03:27
@x_Laura_x Said

"Looks may not be everything, but you can't w**k over a personality"

Sorry but he's not attractive, I'm not interested. I'm your typical shallow teenager



Is he downright fugly, or just not your type?

Cause sex with fugly people is usually awesome.. they try harder to compensate for their looks.

Just sayin..
aquine On May 30, 2014
Psalm 2 = Rev 11:15


Banned



Alice SPrings, Australia
#15New Post! Jun 30, 2010 @ 12:05:12
@Silver_Lining Said

Go and blab about religion in the religion section- that way we don't all have to read this bull s***.

The Word of God permeates all of reality.

The truth is not confined only to religion. It can set one free in all aspects of life.

Blessed be the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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