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treebee On April 13, 2015
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London, United Kingdom
#31New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 08:59:12
much, much easier said than done, good intentions are strong things but so are hormones, for some people it would be too much to bear, libido can be a cruel thing at times.
angelstar529 On November 08, 2012




Hancock, Iowa
#32New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 09:01:48
As much as people have a tendency to believe that sex and love tend to be synonymous with eachother, I think that love, real love, is a more powerful source. Granted, I am certainly not saying that sex aint great and that i wouldnt want to have to live without it, but I think, if push came to shove, I would be able to abstain for the sake of love.

I have had great sex and I have had great love..its just a whole lot more great if you can have them at the same time!
gaelicheart On December 10, 2008




KANSAS CITY,
#33New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 13:45:02
Been in a marriage where there wasnt anything for a year before we split....couldnt ever go thru that again...very lonely,frustrating,neglected,rejected etc feelings.
There are other ways to have a physical connection,other than the act of intercourse, if it is because of a physical thing.
semi_precious_stone On June 23, 2019




, United Kingdom
#34New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 13:49:36
I think I could do without sex, but not without the intimacy. There would still have to be touches and hugs etc.
angelcake On January 18, 2016
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Eastleigh, United Kingdom
#35New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 13:53:02
@semi_precious_stone Said
I think I could do without sex, but not without the intimacy. There would still have to be touches and hugs etc.


i agree i think i could live without the actual inout
satin On February 03, 2008

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anywhere, Alabama
#36New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 15:33:47
@angelcake Said
i agree i think i could live without the actual inout


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nodramajustme On February 29, 2008




Welland, Canada
#37New Post! Dec 18, 2007 @ 15:36:00
It would depend really....I wouldnt go into a relationship knowing that I couldnt have sex with the person EEVER...call me shallow...call me what you want but although sex isnt a HUGE deal...it does play a minorly important role in a relationship.
Now if something happened and you could NO LONGER have sex with you S/O then yes I think it could be possible through other forms of sex (oral/toys/whatever)There are definately ways around it but no sex ever right from the get go wouldnt work for me.
lea_doll On October 22, 2010




Bras?lia, Brazil
#38New Post! Dec 19, 2007 @ 20:55:11
Sex is important in a relationship. It's in our natural instinct and its also the ultimate expression of love.
I know, me personally couldn't live without it. Sometimes I get mad at my husband and try to hold out on him but it never works.
But I agree with nodramajustme said, if something happened to wear it was no longer possible to have sex then there are other forms and methods. I wouldnt end a relationship for it.
arcades On August 08, 2013




Northbay, Canada
#39New Post! Dec 19, 2007 @ 22:53:05
I could do without it for a while as im the kind of person who won't sleep with a woman until 4-6 months of dating. After that however I would try to help her with her problem as best I can without pressuring her.
silverhorseusa On December 01, 2012




Lubbock, Texas
#40New Post! Dec 20, 2007 @ 00:33:56
@semi_precious_stone Said
I think I could do without sex, but not without the intimacy. There would still have to be touches and hugs etc.


Im like semi here, I can do w/out the sex (which I have for a longgggg time now ) but I still enjoy the affections and hugs and kissies
zr011 On December 22, 2007




Chattanooga,
#41New Post! Dec 22, 2007 @ 23:45:14
No


Sorry
bmobsessed27 On June 16, 2008




sykesville, Maryland
#42New Post! Dec 23, 2007 @ 02:51:08
@aceuvclubs Said
I like sex, so i don't think i could handle a relationship without any. But you have to imagine you could if the love of your life were hurt and unable to have sex anymore. That's a


I agree. If you are truely in love then you could cope.
I love sex, so I would have to be REALLY in love!!!!
aceuvclubs On August 22, 2020
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Seattle, Washington
#43New Post! Dec 23, 2007 @ 02:52:05
Begrudgingly
sazzie On August 22, 2010




Being naughty :P, United Kingd
#44New Post! Dec 26, 2007 @ 23:14:05
I have been in the situation where I couldn't have sex for a long while because of injury but the actual act didn't bother me cos I had the feeling of lots of affection.

There are many couples that are seriously happy and don't engage in the act of intercourse
WildChild On February 16, 2013
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Southern Middle, Tennessee
#45New Post! Dec 27, 2007 @ 02:47:20
I guess it all depends on what the relationship was founded on. If sex is what got the couple together then more or less I'd say no it would'nt work if sex were to be removed from the equation. Now on the other hand if love is the strong point of the relationship then of course you could do what you had to do.

I also think that if it's a medical condition or something like that you'd have a better chance at making it work then if say one of the people just decided that they did'nt want sex anymore.

When D. had his accident in 2005 we went about 60 days without much more than a soft kiss. I could'nt even sleep on his chest at night because of the injuries. We survived that and man when we got back our sex life ..........well lets just say we had a lot of lost time to make up for.

When I was sick a couple of years ago I could'nt or would'nt have sex , we survived that so yeah if your hearts in the right place it can work.
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