@Cpat92 Said
Okay, so I know there is a "love line" thread, but this is something I need help with that I feel only the women of TFS can help me with only because I believe they may have a better understanding. No offense to the men. So there is a female friend of mine, who sadly I caught feelings for (didn't expect to or wanted to) who I get along with...... Sometimes. Ever since last week, she's been acting a little different. I don't know what it is and I don't want to confront her or talk to her only because it might make things worse. At least I think it will. Well one of our friends returned to the night shift with us. She got happy. Now she kind of ignores me when he's around. Actually, when other males are around. It's not like she's flirting with them or anything. She sometimes gives me odd looks. For example Saturday, she saw me and my friend walking. Asked us where we're going. My friend starting running his mouth as usual. He got a hug from her and then she just looked at me. No hello, no smile. She gave me a look like I did something to her or that I was bothering her. I didn't know what to say. It confused me. So I just went to my car. I don't really know what to do. I wanna ask her what is going on and what did I do wrong, but what if she denies it and plays stupid. I have too much going on and I don't have time for childish games.
It sounds like she may have picked up on the change in the way you feel about her . It might be to your advantage to invite her for coffee or ice tea . If she accepts then just be straight up and tell her that your feelings have changed and that you would like to spend time with her and get to know her better. Don't bring up how you think she has changed or that you feel she is different . Save that conversation for sometime down the road after you two have gotten to know each other better . This way you will know ,without trying to guess , how she feels . If she says she wants to be friends then you still have a friend, if she agrees to spending time getting to know each other better well then you still have a friend who may become more over time.