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spongebobsmycumrag On December 10, 2009




Lichfield, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 00:38:06
My mom ran off with her boyfriend to the next town over, now I'm looking after my little brother and sister in a 1 bedroomed flat.

I've been doing this for the past year and have not got any money from her in child maintenance, I know this is a problem for a lot of people and was just wondering if anyone knew of a way to hurry the process along, I know she has the money, because I found out recently she got secretly married and went on a honeymoon round Europe last month, she and her new husband work full time. Its just she's making it as hard as possible for me to get it off her, I have a different dad to my little brother and sister but I didn't have much trouble finding their father, he paid it one time and then slipped away.

Any advice?

Anthony.
Lili On July 12, 2019
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Sunshine Land,
#2New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 00:41:58
Wow, how incredibly irresponsible of her! At every step! Wow.
Lili On July 12, 2019
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Sunshine Land,
#3New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 00:42:41
You can file child abandonment charges against her I think, for something like that...
spongebobsmycumrag On December 10, 2009




Lichfield, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 00:55:11
@Lili Said

You can file child abandonment charges against her I think, for something like that...



I didn't know that, Thanks :]
ReAdSaLoT On September 23, 2019




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#5New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 01:02:41
In the U.K. their are child abandonment laws. If your siblings are underage it is a jailable offense to leave you. That's the worse case scenario; she could be forced into garnished wages, or garnishment of money she may already have. A public officer of the court or child welfare should be able to direct you in the right way. I'm not completely up on your laws, but there is hope;there are also subsidies from the govt. to help you until legal matters are settled. I don't understand how any mother could abandon her children. God bless you.
Lili On July 12, 2019
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Sunshine Land,
#6New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 01:06:19
I also wanted to say, how fortunate those kids are that they have you there to take care of them, you are making no small sacrifice in being their caretakers.
miracle3x On January 28, 2009




Radcliff, Kentucky
#7New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 01:42:32
Do u have custody of ur younger siblings. If not, I would start there first, but if u do, then u should be able to go to court and get money from her. Also, *I know here* if u go and talk to a case worker you can get help through the state, and by doing that they can also help u find the father.

Ur brother and sister are very fortunate to have you.
IcyMist On February 17, 2010




Tampa, Florida
#8New Post! Nov 08, 2008 @ 03:07:50
I am so sorry that you are being put is such a hard situation when you should be out enjoying yourself but you should be very proud of yourself for stepping up and taking care of your siblings. I hope you can get some help soon and that your deadbeat mother ends up having to pay and pay. God bless you for being the loving brother that you are.
spongebobsmycumrag On December 10, 2009




Lichfield, United Kingdom
#9New Post! Nov 10, 2008 @ 04:36:38
Thanks everyone, for the advice and the kind words.
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