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jenzwa On January 26, 2014




Making Mistakes, United Kingdo
#1New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 11:21:28
Me and my boyfriend broke up last night and GOD it it hurts! It was on the cards and I know it's for the best but I feel so strange. We'd been together 4 and a half years, since I was 17 and all my memories of adult life are with him!!! I'll admit that the last year hasn't been great for us and although we both said we'd try and make things work, we never did. I don't feel like really upset, I just feel like there's a huge void now that can't ever be filled. I kinda wish everything had worked out and we were back three years ago when we were so happy and content with each other nothing was getting in our way! I know I have to move on but can something reassure me that the way I'm feeling right now is natural?
cole On September 11, 2021




Stirling, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 12:02:36
Yeha what you are feeling is pretty natural, if you only split last night be prepared to go down before you go back up, the thing i found best was keeping busy, i threw myself into work and talking alot helped too, talking to friends, talking to people on here and generally trying to keep your mind off it. The nights are the hardest, even more so if you lived together. It takes time, don't try to rush it or run and start something new with someone else as it won't work and ultimately you will only end up more confused.

Good luck and take care, if you want to chat them PM me.
flolyn09 On November 09, 2006




dffdfg, Philippines
#3New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 12:17:55
in my side I have been break out I suddenly feel guilty that my girl cry out loudly and say plzz come back I said Are you a jerk???? but I love her hehehehehhe
holacik On November 14, 2013




Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
#4New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 12:26:43
I know how it is. My girl and I have been breaking up and getting together for about six years now. It's not a very healthy cycle so try and keep your break clean..
alysedai On November 09, 2020




Newport News, Virginia
#5New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 12:46:07
It's always hard. You hate being hurt and you hate hurting someone else, but it's almost always inevitable. It sucks. feel better!
treacle On July 11, 2009




B/Stoke, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 13:41:21
Of course its natural to feel like this hunni. You have done most of your growing up with this guy and shared most of your adult life.

he knows so much about you. You are bound to feel a hole atm.

You are taking a ositive attitude towards this though, which is good. Be brave, and whats there stopping you two being friends? Maybe not right away, but some time in the future?
angel_lily On February 16, 2007




Kent, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Nov 09, 2006 @ 13:53:14
It's never easy but time does make it hurt less.

Staying friends is good - try to do that - at least you don't lose that person from your life altogether. It's not always possible but good if you can.

You will probably feel like s*** for a while but it will get easier.
jenzwa On January 26, 2014




Making Mistakes, United Kingdo
#8New Post! Nov 10, 2006 @ 16:18:43
Thanks everyone for your kind words! So much for not being upset though. I've had a constant stream of tears running down my face, I can't sleep or eat, I feel sick and I'm s*** scared that this is not what I want!
jenzwa On January 26, 2014




Making Mistakes, United Kingdo
#9New Post! Nov 10, 2006 @ 16:19:55
@jenzwa Said
I kinda wish everything had worked out and we were back three years ago when we were so happy and content with each other nothing was getting in our way!



Yeah! It seems this is what I want!!
fesster On December 08, 2008




found under stones, United Kin
#10New Post! Nov 10, 2006 @ 16:42:06
hey girl no matter what ANYBODY says you will feel like s*** for quiet a while.
empty,lost,confused,worthless,unlovable all the crap things. tears DO & WILL keep coming for a while yet.
i'm 2 months down the SAME road so i KNOW exactly how your feeling....i still cry now !
it does/will get easier.....they tell me.
you gotta try and look after yourself you are the most important person at moment.
feel free to PM if want.

cus you ARE worth it.
milanelle On April 13, 2007




manila, Philippines
#11New Post! Mar 16, 2007 @ 20:37:55
oh no! 4 years and a half.. you've been together and then just a snap.. all is gone! but for some reason maybe you two need sometimes to know wat u really want or feel.. so if time comes again that u'll be talking again, u know how you feel and if he does not love u anymore, try to be friends with him and ask him to help u, to mend your broken heart.. its not easy to fall apart wid sum1 u really love but still, thats life..
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