Obviously something went wrong with the above message. It's just as well I type long messages out separately and then cut and paste them on to here when I'm happy with the final version. Unfortunately I didn't notice it hadn't come out in full in time to edit so......
Re-posted in full below:
Well, I'll agree with you on one thing at least. I really do have absolutely no idea at all why men step into a boxing ring. I've never felt any inclination to cause harm or suffering to another human being and don't pretend to understand why anybody would.
And before we go any further, I'll acknowledge that in the modern era, women box too. In Rio last year Nicola Adams (GBR) became the first woman to successfully defend an Olympic title. So it isn't just men, it's women too. Fact acknowledged.
You list a number of areas that boxing promotes in a positive light and I acknowledge there is credence in arguing those aspects. But these things are not exclusive to boxing. They can be learned from other sports that don't require two protagonists each trying to seriously injure the other.
Boxing is not the only sport that disadvantaged young people can go to for refuge from an unhappy or lonely life, or who live in a broken family. Quite literally, any sport can do that. In fact, any youth organisation, be it the St John's Ambulance Brigade or the Scouts or whatever can also achieve those things. All of these organisations can bring companionship, relief from misery at home and a sense of belonging and self worth to young people.
I came from a very happy, secure and contented family background and as a young girl took dancing classes, joined the Brownies and St John's Ambulance. I knew of girls in all those groups whose lives weren't as contented and secure as mine and I went out of my way to especially befriend them. I didn't take them into a ring and punch their head in front of adults encouraging me to hit them harder. How you can suggest that doing so will make any deprived, downtrodden, miserable child happier is beyond me.
Those girls who joined our St John's Ambulance group gained all the things you list without being brutalised and in addition, learned more useful, life affirming skills such as being able to respond positively in an emergency situation..... how to give first aid. I would much rather be able to ease suffering than inflict it.
You want a child to get fit..? Teach them discipline..? Send them to ballet classes, mate. The levels of fitness, control and dedication required to achieve high standards in any dancing discipline is waaaaaaayyyyy beyond what boxing teaches.
As for being "saved from a life of crime," oh, for goodness sake. I can almost hear Jimmy Cagney: "If only someone would gimme a chance.." What utter tosh.
Criminality comes from many sources, and one of the major causes is environment. But even then, environment alone doesn't produce ONLY criminals. Many a young man has climbed out of the ghetto by other means than climbing into the ring.
And as for "No place to run, no place to hide", that's no different to being a batsman at the crease, with a fast bowler running in with a new ball and a ring of slip fielders waiting for him to nick it to them. The goalkeeper and the penalty taker in the shoot out have to go eyeball to eyeball with a stadium full of people watching... and there can be only one winner. Holding your nerve in a one-on-one confrontation isn't confined to boxing.
It takes guts to tuck a rugby ball under your arm and run headlong, full tilt towards a pair of burly props who you just know are going to try to throw you forcefully to the ground. I've been there. It hurts when they do it and having them then fall on top of you certainly knocks the wind out of your sails (and other hurts besides when the rest of the pack piles in..!!). But the principle object of that is to gain possession of the ball. They're not trying to kill you.
When the ruck is over you pick yourself up, take a deep breath, scrape the mud out of your eye and rejoin the game. Next time, you might be the one doing the tackling.
All sport is about "finding oneself." Whether you swim or run or kick a football you have to have the character, courage, determination and desire to achieve the highest level you can regardless of personal sacrifice or even physical injury.
Tell me that any footballer who suffers a broken leg, or rugby player with his shoulder dislocated, or even the cricketer who gets banjaxed (that looks like it hurts A LOT
) was ever deterred from playing for the knowledge that such a thing could happen. It's a risk. We take it every time we cross the white line. But we do it just the same. We do it for all the reasons you suggest are exclusive to boxing, but aren't.
I disagree vehemently that people who have never boxed cannot understand the things you list. All sports teach those things in their own way, almost entirely without recourse to the kind of violence that is deliberately intended to cause serious brain injury.
But there is one thing that boxing doesn't teach. Teamwork.
Many sports, including boxing, are individual pursuits. Sure, the swimmer, the golfer, the tennis player and the runner have support staffs and utilise other professionals such as psychologists, coaches and medical professionals to help them improve their standard and you m