I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the sound on mine does not always work, so we exchanged numbers, so we would be on the phone sometimes too and we just talked and, well got to know eachother. We text eachother all the time, we talk online and on the phone.
We are both 19, in college, so we kind of are going through the same kind of things in life. He lives in NY and I live in FL. I used to live in NY and have lots of family there, so that was just another thing we had in common.
The issue now is, we are always joking about "whenever someday, we meet up...blah, blah.." but the truth is, I really do like him and dont know if I should find a way to make a meeting possible. He said he wanted to try to come down to see me over spring break this year, and then would joke that I have to buy HIM the ticket...and I was like NO. "You want to see me, you can find a way to get here". The truth is though, now that more time has passed, I really do want to meet him too.
I know its usually frowned upon, but you think I should go and see him, maybe over the holiday break or something. I was thinking maybe surprising him for our B-days, because Iam the 15th of February and he is the 16th...so I thought maybe I could do that. I dont know, I just was wondering, would u guys try to really make it happen and meet someone like this, or would you say, b/c of how we met, so randomly and on a chat online, that I should just never meet him???