14 embarrassing sex questions - answered!

@alk1975 Said

I recognize your need for such defense mechanisms, but am sad that you would prefer others stop being satisfied with life and see it as a source of misery the way you do.

@twilitezone911 Said

eb- thank you for the compliment, actually that is a great compliment to me. consider that i am not a dad or grandfather. i do believe that i am leader and teacher not a follower. i am definitely someone who follow a different drummer!

@Electric_Banana Said

Not as a source of misery - Just keeping them from getting worked up in great expectations.

Ultimately I think most depression comes from people expecting far more from life that what life is, has been or is capable of being.

Disappointment results in discouragement.

I mean I was pretty defeated once I came to realization that, despite my will or effort, most of my path was preset and set in stone.

Might as well set up posts connected by velvet red ropes and a long fancy carpet leading from the hospital room I was born in all the way to my crypt.

That way I wouldn't have gotten any wild or crazy ideas, beat myself up for failing the impossible or got my hopes up.

@white_swan53 Said

It sounds as if you be thinking men are hard to figure. When in reality they just be small boys grown tall .
simple as . You don't have to take my word for it, I heard it from a woman who had been married to the same man for 63 years , she raised 3 boys of her own and helped raise 7 grandsons in her 83 years on this earth.

@twilitezone911 Said

alka1975 - i have dyslexia with comphrension with reading. in 1970's, when i was school as a teenager, regular public school, i didn't have programs that delt with my problem, and the teachers had no idea how to helped me. i didn't go to college, and maybe that why my grammar doesn't look like english to you. i don't mind if someone said that i have a bad grammar, because i do! everybody on this forum is tpying english, who know who is writing in your native tongue on this forum, who really care?

@alk1975 Said

depression is the inability to formulate hope for the future.

I don't happen to believe that everyone who has great expectations will be disappointed overall.

I do believe that disappointment is a part of life.

I don't believe that a person's path is set in stone.

I do believe that some people face harder paths and more obstacles than others.

ultimately I think depression results from people not believing they have the efficacy to meet their own needs, in their many forms.

@alk1975 Said

depression is the inability to formulate hope for the future.

@ReAdSaLoT Said

There are many forms of depression which I believe you're making light of what may be a serious illness,Depression may be described as feeling sad, blue, unhappy, miserable, or down in the dumps. Most of us feel this way at one time or another for short periods.Clinical depression is caused by chemical imbalances in the brain.
Some people describe depression as “living in a black hole” or having a feeling of impending doom. However, some depressed people don't feel sad at all—they may feel lifeless, empty, and apathetic, or men in particular may even feel angry, aggressive, and restless. We all have periods of sadness which most can work through. True clinical depression is not as easy as you refer to it. You need more facts, you're referring to life's general disappointments, not true depression.

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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
Rollo May


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@Eaglebauer Said

Ah.

All us stupid men are simpletons because you heard it from a woman who based her opinon on eleven of them all from the same family.

M'kay.

@white_swan53 Said

Please sir if you will be so kind, show me where there is
anything , anything at all anywhere that has the word stupid .
Thank you in advance.