Its difficult and I do think that it depends somewhat on the relationship, I cheated at one point on my first boyfriend, we were together a long time and just drifted apart and I was young and just didn't think about the consequences of my actions, although that is no excuse I know! I went on to meet a new guy, ended up being together a long time, got married and everything and I never ever would have done anything like that to him! But one thing is you cant blame people for feeling the way they do, cheating is a rotten thing to do so if people see you as a cheater you need to totally show them that your a better person (if you are of course
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