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Met the perfect girl who was recently dating a friend of mine...

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cole On October 22, 2023




Stirling, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Aug 14, 2006 @ 16:08:36
Send her some flowers, nothing to imposing, just something subtle, in the card just put missing you, or something similar, don't go over the top, just something to let her know that you are there and willing to wait if this is what she wants. If it's meant to be it will be, and you will end up togther but if she ends up else where then mark it up to experience and move on m8. Best of Luck
bain22 On August 16, 2006




columbus, Ohio
#3New Post! Aug 14, 2006 @ 16:11:53
Is a dozen assorted color roses too over the top? she called me and thanked me after sending them (telling me that it was very sweet) however said that I didnt have to send them and it was unnecessary. lol. oh well, what a hopeless romantic i am...
cole On October 22, 2023




Stirling, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Aug 14, 2006 @ 16:22:05
Me and you both m8 Well you have done what you can, you have showed that you care, the thing to do now would be to back off and give her some space, pushing her now will only make her resent you and will end up with you being the loser. Play the thing by ear and just give her a few days to think things over. She knows where you are if she needs you.
steveuk On May 15, 2012




London, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Aug 14, 2006 @ 17:01:33
Never date your mates' ex
Never date your mates' sister

From personal experience, this has caused endless amounts of problems in the past, with both the mate and the girl.

This is, of course, just my opinion.
bain22 On August 16, 2006




columbus, Ohio
#6New Post! Aug 14, 2006 @ 19:52:10
well i do agree with this of course and ultimately thats what caused its demise between her and i. the way i rationalized it was that John and her had only been dating a couple of weeks and it wasnt that serious. i guess i didnt realize how much john liked her...
squirt_aka_casey On April 21, 2018
BCW-Ant Destroyer





That place, Ohio
#7New Post! Aug 14, 2006 @ 20:00:53
It sounds as though, to me, she has an affect on men. I don't want to sound like I'm miss negative, but really, she probably has issues with commiting to anyone, and I wouldn't be surprized if she is already seeing another guy at this time. Women do that, we're b****es. She probably has used the excuse "he really is still attached" to make you feel like your better than him, and now she has what she wanted, and is going on in her life, and is using him as the excuse so that you don't question her decision. Don't trust her. What has John said to you about his feelings for her? They might be different than what she says they are.
bain22 On August 16, 2006




columbus, Ohio
#8New Post! Aug 15, 2006 @ 03:31:21
Nice thanks for the insite!
steveuk On May 15, 2012




London, United Kingdom
#9New Post! Aug 15, 2006 @ 13:37:29
Also, you shouldn't dismiss 3 weeks as not serious as it's such a long time.

Certain people can just fall straight into a serious relationship without even trying
bain22 On August 16, 2006




columbus, Ohio
#10New Post! Aug 15, 2006 @ 15:29:01
They both admitted that it wasnt serious and that they were both actively seeing other people. I guess John just didn't want to let go even though he admittedly had a "better connection" with the 18 year old.
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