ok mrswedishfish, I will tell you this - I had one, even after my baby (who is six now, and hardly a baby), but when I got pregnant for the second time, he was only about 6 months old. And I was only 20 years old. And all the people I knew were just living it up. They didn't have the first clue what babies were like. They found out later, most of my friends have children under 2 right now. Ok, didn't want to admit it, but maybe someone needs to for all the other girls out there. Trust me, there were plenty of them in the room that day. We all knew we were there for the same thing. None of us were wanting to have a baby. Only difference was, I had actually already had one. Obviously we didn't have to argue our cases. It just went down. You can all judge me as harshly as you like. At least I have been honest, and I know that as a 20 year old single mother, it just wasn't meant to be. Screw them for making me feel that way.
Apr 26, 2006 @ 21:07:38
