Relationship Advice When She Isn't Even Replying You?

@txsome Said

I recently went through a breakup with my partner of 2 years, after the relationship took an ugly turn about a month ago when we had a major argument regarding the relationship itself, along with various other issues. This was probably a build-up of several ongoing issues we didn't see eye to eye on, and it just sparked everything.

She ended up breaking things off, and I haven't been in the best of shape ever since. I do want to win her back and in this time, I've come to realize the lack of proper communication was what caused things to turn out this way but she won't even talk to me right now. Guess I'm looking for some advice on the matter and whether anyone could provide me with some tips on how I should go about winning her back?

I'm 26 and she's 2 years younger, plus I do have a slight history of anxiety which was what made her stop talking to me altogether right now because I went into a stupid panic mode and acted desperate right after the breakup.

@bobbimay Said

the best advice I have ever been giving....don't lessen to what people say ...but watch what they do...

in other words if someone treats their family...friends..boy/girlfriends with disrespect chances are they will treat you the same way..

2 year old relationships are hard to get over and will hurt both physical and emotional ...but in order to move on one must ask oneself

is this the "way" I want my life to be??...is she really what will make me happy??Do I really want to fight/argue about this for years??

and if the answer is no...maybe it's time to grieve about your loss learn from it...and then move on to someone better....

@shadowen Said

Sometimes getting back with an Ex is a good idea, but oft times it isn't. Sometimes fighting for a relationship makes sense, but if you are the only one who is fighting that should make you stop and think. Is it really in your interest to be expending time, effort and emotion trying to get back with someone who wont even communicate with you?

The chances are you are still hurting. But in all probability your hurt isn't because you have lost your gf, but rather because you have lost the future you saw for yourself. Let it go. The truth is that life doesn't always work out as we would plan it but that's not necessarily a bad thing. For life often has a habit of working out for the best anyway. Meanwhile spend time with family and friends, with those who value and desire your company. In time things will get easier and one day - probably when you least expect it - you will find that special someone, and the lessons you learn't from your last relationship can be put to good use in your new one.

Anyway, regardless of what road you choose to take i hope things work out for you.