@boobear Said 
Exactly this. You probably think that you are doing the right thing by your child by starting but actually you're not, sooner or later the resentment & mistrust will build up & it's not healthy for your child to be around that atmosphere. The blatant disrespect to yourself & your child is bad enough, if he like this now what's he gonna be like in a few years time, could you let your child grow up in that? Think of yourself & your child, this man does not deserve either of you.
^^^This, not to mention that you are encouraging your child to follow in the footsteps of the like gendered parent. Is it a girl? Do you want her to put up with the same type of relationships from men? Is it a boy? Would you like him to act just like his daddy is? Take a stand, send the message to that child that you do not approve of such behavior and will not tolerate such behavior, and help your child to have a happy healthy marriage.
Dec 20, 2011 @ 22:27:00
