It's over for good this time....

aw sweetie i think you might be over reacting. u've no idea whats happened in his day he might of been moody and short on the phone with you but not becuase of u calling him or nagging him.

i say give him time to call u back or text. if he doesnt tonight, see how long it take him - bet it wont be long.

Am I the only one that thinks this forum is turning into a bit of a "Advice to the Lovelorn" column???? This is about the fifth thread asking for relationship help!

Use the simple solution. If you are in doubt, throw the bum/b**** out.

I agree you should let this relationship go. This guy sounds like a jerk.

I remember you, you were the one who had to sit through a surprise phone call to your boyfriend from another gal asking him out.

I am surprised you were still with this guy afterwards.

So I will say it again....

YES!!!! It is over. It was then too.

He sounds like a cocksucker. f*** him!

As you describe it he isnt/wasn't treating you in a manner that suggests that he actually cares about you. If he knew you were feeling butchers then seeing you should have been right at the top of his list of priorities. He comes across as a pretty selfish person.

I do however believe that you shouldn't break up with someone when you are feeling particularly emotional. Making decisions whilst very emotional is like putting to sea in a storm.

If you are going to break up with someone i also think you ought to sit down with them and tell them to their face that you are breaking up with them, explain why and truthfully answer any questions they might have. If you cared enough about them to be in a relationship with them then they deserve to have you end the relationship in a manner that shows a basic degree of respect and decency...even if these are perhaps things that he has not consistently shown you.