Geronimo is not dead!

would the opposite be outdeed?

Not if it isn't true.

Yes, but it is.

you mean i could grab a new car and go to napa valley california and move into any house?

Yeah, why not?

most cool.
free gas to get there too?

Sounds great, until two guys wanna move into the same house. Then we're back to war.

Depends on how the mind is trained. I'd personally give way and go wandering to find some other cool place which could, in turn, work out to be even cooler (in the long run) than the first place that I was aiming for.

I'm also happy with being meek and humble when it comes to accommodation.

I don't dispute that. I don't dispute at all, from what I've seen, that in general you are good natured toward other people and wouldn't harm someone else. But that makes you one of a group of humans, not like all other humans. There are a lot of people in the world who are in fact warlike and violent, especially when it comes to getting something they want. I'm not being pessimistic, it's just a fact plain and simple. I deal with people like that every time I come in to work to do my job.

The grass is greener on the other side of the fence problem will never go away.