my father

@Delta62 Said

ok

@XloveXmeXforeverX Said

im not that weird tho just a lil lol

@ADUB1987 Said

My Father left my home when i was only born, he was absent 18 years of my life and is trying to rectify what we never had..

He will always be a stranger to me.

Im concscience to the loss of the suffering, but at least your Father had the priviledge to know you, be it brief or not, some people are not so lucky, some people were ophaned as kids.

I hope you celebrate your Fathers past instead of living in regret.

Im sure he would be proud of the young woman you are today.

@mysticwriter Said

I have to say that I am so sorry that your father is that way. I want you to know that you are not alone. My father hates me because 1) he was about to call for a divorce from my mother when she came up pregnant with me 2) because I supposedly look more like my mother and 3) because I don't allow him to just treat me horribly and then go Daddy I love you without him atoning for what has done.

I haven't seen nor heard from my father in two years. I know the pain that you are in. But you have to come to this conclusion at some point - he is the one choosing this, not you. So if it is his choice to not have a relationship with you then you have to learn to move on. My entire family is abusive and I haven't seen them all in 2 years now. I'm pregnant with our first child and they still haven't tried to atone for their transgressions so we can all move on.

I know that it is a difficult process to go through, especially if you are alone. I had my husband to lean on during the difficult times. If you have a significant other try leaning on them. If not, find out which of your friends who will stand beside you through it all. If your father is willing to be this way towards you for 4 years then he probably won't change. Indeed, dads are supposed to be loving - but sometimes some people don't have dads but biological father's. Just because he shares DNA with you does not make him a dad. If he was a real dad then he would never do this to you.