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JR_Sanford On August 02, 2017




Portland (St. Johns), Oregon
#61New Post! Jan 16, 2011 @ 00:01:59
@erkk Said

So my girlfriend was scheduled to have a training session from this dude (5'9, 160 lbs).. So I go do my leg workout while she goes and does some woman exercises with the trainer... Now here's where it gets fishy.. About an hour and a half later, I get finished with my workout, I go find my girlfriend and ask if she's ready to leave.

She says she's gonna stay an extra 30 minutes for cardio and told me to go home and that the trainer would drive her home since he doesnt live too far off. So I said ok, and as I was leaving, I see the trainer in his office clearing off his desk and unbuttoning his shirt. I bertstared him for a few seconds and then my gf give a pair of shoes(I suppose it buy for me) similar like this running shoe to the trainer.
I even don't have the courage to go on watching, so I left without saying anything. Should I be worried? or am I overreacting?

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Why ask us? Ask her. ask yourself this, "How my sex life with her?" If it's weak then you probably already know what's going on.

J.R.
GSnap On March 02, 2019




Over the Rainbow,
#62New Post! Jan 16, 2011 @ 00:08:00
@jr_sanford Said

Why ask us? Ask her. ask yourself this, "How my sex life with her?" If it's weak then you probably already know what's going on.

J.R.



As much as I think open communication is great, how many people who are cheating come right out and say yes when asked the question?
JR_Sanford On August 02, 2017




Portland (St. Johns), Oregon
#63New Post! Jan 16, 2011 @ 00:11:27
@GSnap Said

As much as I think open communication is great, how many people who are cheating come right out and say yes when asked the question?


You'll get your answer by watching how she reacts to the question. Body language speaks volumes. Add that to her facial expressions and her voice modulation and you shall see/hear your answer.

J.R.
GSnap On March 02, 2019




Over the Rainbow,
#64New Post! Jan 16, 2011 @ 00:16:04
@jr_sanford Said

You'll get your answer by watching how she reacts to the question. Body language speaks volumes. Add that to her facial expressions and her voice modulation and you shall see/hear your answer.

J.R.



Exactly. But I think asking them about it won't do a lot of good, it just alerts that you are on to them and they will cover tracks harder. You can usually get your answers by just observing their actions in normal day activities. I think it is best to try to draw your conclusions before alerting them that you are on to them.

Usually when someone REALLY suspects their partner of cheating the relationship is probably already in the toilet. Even if you are wrong, something about the relationship is really "off" - either you are too insecure to be in a relationship at that moment of your life or they really are doing wrong things and its time to call it quits. If someone finds it is just their own insecurity its best to try to work that out first as it is hard for a very insecure person to ever be happy in a relationship until they can get a handle on it.
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