Got the "D" bomb dropped on me yesterday

sister_of_mercy

London, United Kingdom

#16

Aug 17, 2010 @ 13:13:10

@jr_sanford Said

Oh, I'm alright. I felt like I was just her roommate/laborer anyway. Constant belittling, yelling at me (although she said she wasn't), no validation of my feelings (I'm TOO sensitive), no appreciation towards anything I do, always, and I mean always seeing the negative aspect of things.

I actually saw this coming. Got all her credit cards paid off, the hay in the barn, all the fence built, etc, and now she has no use for me.

She says I upset her stomach.

She's had intestinal problems since I met her 10 years ago.

Oh well. If she doesn't want me here, I sure don't want to make any more problems for her, so I'm looking for an apartment nearer my work.

I'm actually going to be OK. I have a positive outlook, and will grow from all this. I haven't lost any of my love for her and never will. I'll thank her and wish her the best life can give her.

J.R.

Well it's good to hear you're thinking positively, especially when she's done something that you have every right to feel upset over. I hope you're able to leave it behind and find someone who will appreciate you more.

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Edited: August 17, 2010 @ 13:13

someone_else

Not a dude.

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American Alps, Washington

#17

Aug 17, 2010 @ 13:57:53

@jr_sanford Said

Oh, I'm alright. I felt like I was just her roommate/laborer anyway. Constant belittling, yelling at me (although she said she wasn't), no validation of my feelings (I'm TOO sensitive), no appreciation towards anything I do, always, and I mean always seeing the negative aspect of things.

I actually saw this coming. Got all her credit cards paid off, the hay in the barn, all the fence built, etc, and now she has no use for me.

She says I upset her stomach.

She's had intestinal problems since I met her 10 years ago.

Oh well. If she doesn't want me here, I sure don't want to make any more problems for her, so I'm looking for an apartment nearer my work.

I'm actually going to be OK. I have a positive outlook, and will grow from all this. I haven't lost any of my love for her and never will. I'll thank her and wish her the best life can give her.

J.R.

I think I would have a pretty positive outlook if that was the situation that was leaving me, too.

Have fun looking for an apartment.

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jonnythan

Bringer of rad mirth

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Here and there,

#18

Aug 17, 2010 @ 14:02:44

Honestly? Hate to be a d***, but not at all surprised given the nature of your postings here on TFS.

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raditz

Blah

Houston, Texas

#19

Aug 17, 2010 @ 18:26:23

@sister_of_mercy Said

It's none of our business what happened, if he doesn't want to say then that's up to him.

If he doesn't want people asking what happened, maybe he shouldn't be posting his life story on a public forum?

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Lili

....................

Sunshine Land,

#20

Aug 17, 2010 @ 19:07:20

@someone_else Said

I think I would have a pretty positive outlook if that was the situation that was leaving me, too.

Have fun looking for an apartment.

Agree.

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