@Kels8786 Said
The man that I am seeing is black I am white. Last night my father found out that the guy have been talking about all summer is not a white boy from the suburbs but a black man from the city. He then said that I have disgraced our family and that if i pursue a relationship with him that he would kick me out of the house. He then rationalized this by saying people should keep to their own and that the bible supports this.
This obviously was a shock since both my younger siblings have children to individuals they are not in relationships with. I have no children and am very careful to prevent pregnancy. Yet me dating a responsible independent man of a different race is a black mark on our families morality.
I live in the twilight zone. I plan on visiting my man regardless of my fathers threat to remove me from his home. If he makes good on it then I will simply find another way even if it means not finishing my last year at college.
So here I will end with a question to all of you out in TFS land, has anyone else experienced this in their own family? and if so do you agree that people of different races should not be together? if so why?
I think it's time that you broke it to your dad that you're old enough to make your own decisions! I also think, if his source of inspiration for living his life is the Bible, that you should sit him down and tell him that Jesus was almost certainly not white!