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someone_else On August 30, 2012
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American Alps, Washington
#16New Post! Aug 05, 2010 @ 13:58:11
@Kels8786 Said

He then rationalized this by saying people should keep to their own and that the bible supports this.



You might want to show this to your dad.
Interracial Marriage in the Bible.

The Bible doesn't really support that, nor does it really support interracial marriage. It also doesn't oppose it, so there's no real Biblical argument. At least, that's what I got out of that commentary.
foosyerdoos On March 10, 2015




Aberdeen, United Kingdom
#17New Post! Aug 05, 2010 @ 14:26:23
@Kels8786 Said

The man that I am seeing is black I am white. Last night my father found out that the guy have been talking about all summer is not a white boy from the suburbs but a black man from the city. He then said that I have disgraced our family and that if i pursue a relationship with him that he would kick me out of the house. He then rationalized this by saying people should keep to their own and that the bible supports this.

This obviously was a shock since both my younger siblings have children to individuals they are not in relationships with. I have no children and am very careful to prevent pregnancy. Yet me dating a responsible independent man of a different race is a black mark on our families morality.

I live in the twilight zone. I plan on visiting my man regardless of my fathers threat to remove me from his home. If he makes good on it then I will simply find another way even if it means not finishing my last year at college.

So here I will end with a question to all of you out in TFS land, has anyone else experienced this in their own family? and if so do you agree that people of different races should not be together? if so why?



I think it's time that you broke it to your dad that you're old enough to make your own decisions! I also think, if his source of inspiration for living his life is the Bible, that you should sit him down and tell him that Jesus was almost certainly not white!
maximillion On December 13, 2016




, Minnesota
#18New Post! Aug 05, 2010 @ 14:37:26
thats disgraceful your father should be ashamed of himself skin colour has nothing to do with the person themselves we all bleed the same colour underneath he should really change his attitude and outlook on life
GiantSpiderGoat On February 14, 2015
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In Your Mind's Eye, Antarctica
#19New Post! Aug 05, 2010 @ 14:39:25
My family is so mixed race who ever I go out with I am already probably part of that race.
spiderwebb On September 17, 2010




Barrie, Canada
#20New Post! Aug 06, 2010 @ 15:43:21
i honestly do not get the big deal when black and whites date...we are all the same people just a different colour...it basically makes me sick how it goes. if i were you i would not care what my parents or family thought...if you really like this guy do not let it go
KAMPA On October 28, 2013
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Uhlan Bator, Mongolia
#21New Post! Aug 06, 2010 @ 15:58:24
@Kels8786 Said

I do believe that a geneologist found that really all humans are of one race the skin color difference is simply a genetic code like that of eye color or hair color. So really we are not even different races lol.

Not geneologist but geneticsists!
I am married to an African American woman, and dated many others. Some times you get disapproving looks! My family had a lot of serious flaws but racism was not one of them!
KAMPA On October 28, 2013
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Uhlan Bator, Mongolia
#22New Post! Aug 06, 2010 @ 16:00:36
@someone_else Said

You might want to show this to your dad.
Interracial Marriage in the Bible.

The Bible doesn't really support that, nor does it really support interracial marriage. It also doesn't oppose it, so there's no real Biblical argument. At least, that's what I got out of that commentary.

Merriam, Moses' sister was jealous of the attention moses paid to the Nubian woman!
mithlesh98 On August 13, 2010




mumbai, India
#23New Post! Aug 13, 2010 @ 11:52:37
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white_swan53 On October 07, 2020




n/a, New Mexico
#24New Post! Aug 13, 2010 @ 12:44:53
Your dad raised you . Obviously you were not raise in a racist home. It may be that once the 'shock wears off he will be just as accepting about your Boyfriend as he is about his other children being unwed parents. Is his reaction close to the one he had when the news of his other daughters being unwed parents ?
It is very hard to go from being the parent of a child parent to being a parent of adult children .
When it comes right down to it , you are an adult and it is youtr decision. If this changes your plans and you have to move out into a place of your own , well sometimes life throws us curve balls and our plans do change. But generally what follows that curve ball makes any inconvenience well worth any trouble it may have caused .
Good luck .
adam_lambert_love On August 14, 2010




sari, Iran
#25New Post! Aug 14, 2010 @ 12:29:22
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