A friend of mine was diagnosed with cancer last year.
They have exhausted all methods of recovery and are beginning preperations for her death.
She has requested a wake before she passes away, feeling that she wants to be present when all her loved ones say their last goodbyes and would like the chance to see everyone she has known through out her life, one last time.
Her idea is to post an invite on Facebook/Twitter etc to find everyone she would otherwise miss.
Noone has challenged her idea, as they all feel her last wishes should be carried out, obviously.
However, her husband has expressed his concerns to me, and asked what i think.
I think he expects me to discuss it with her.
He feels it would be a bad idea as he has an image of 2,000 people showing up for something that would inevitably end miserably.
I guess he feels 2,000 sad people in one room is not very conductive for a party atmosphere.
He thinks posting invites on the net is tacky and I also believe he may be still hanging onto the hope she will have a miraculous recovery, making her wake a mockery when she lives.
What do others think?
Bad idea, or give the lady her last wish already?
I think she should have what she desires, regardless. But her husband is clearly an important person in the matter after all..