I have had a facebook page for years . when my late brother first got one he bugged every one until we all had one , he was the glue that kept us all connected. the month following his death my other brothers wife who had been nothing but a rude b**** to any female in my brother family did and said the perfect things and finelly got her life's dream , me the only sister out of her husbands life,
my brother and I tippy toe around each other with 'like' each others posts but we never directly communicate. hey s*** happens. I would not expect him to choose a sibling over a wife and two sons , and I except thast she is what she is and hey s*** happens .
Well , yesterday there is a post shared by one of his sons saying 'please go to our gofund me page to help a husband ,father and proued vet rebuild his life.
My brother had had a seriouse stroke in mid november , and the wife and two grown sons both in ther late twenties and one married , are begging for donations becauser their stable, hard working, main sorce of income , (this is what the gofundme page says,) has been suddenly 'taken' from them , (my brother is making a slow recovery) and they are left adift blah blah ,,,
I almost let it out with both barrels on my brothers time line , but was able to reframe , simply because he certainly does not need hisd two grown sons bellowirnf at in defence of their mother while she is screiching at him about his sister ,,, she fixed it where we are still on each others friend list and casn read the others older messages but can not message each other. what the f*** ever, she want to alot of work to make sure we couldn't do what we had both already agreed not to do .
But he is still my brother and in need of a bit of support. so i waited around till I knew he it was him on his page and then sent a message by usding the send a friend requiste message deal. I used two short sentences telling him I would not be using the gofundme site , but would be sending a bit of cash to my son and he could forward it to him. I hinted the the wife that I expected her to wipe her a** with it and flush it , that way we both could feel good. me cuz i sent some . and her cuz she flushed it.
this is rather amuseing ,
in their attempt to keep his family in ther dark about his storke they didn't link to the gofund page. what made them do it now is , in the more then a month that it's been up there has been 3 $ 20.00 and 1 $10.00 donations. all four from her family . I was going to rub it in their faces by sending a sizable amount making her family seem like church mice . but decided I would match their combined donations because I truely believe not a penny wiill be used towards my brother, it says right there on the gofund page the money is for the wife and boys because their main source of income can't even drive a car