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Missa On June 11, 2010




Lawrenceville, Virginia
#1New Post! Jan 13, 2010 @ 23:22:07
Why is it so tough knowing that the person you loved so much moved on sooner then you thought.

And even to top it off, i still love him and i cant get over him!
Kristy69 On September 14, 2014
Carly's Mommy





Underneath the Cyanide Sun....
#2New Post! Jan 13, 2010 @ 23:24:25
Because deep down you want to know that he misses you and all that you had together, and to see him giving someone else what he gave you makes it feel unspecial.
jeanettesianrachel On September 16, 2016




Medway, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Jan 13, 2010 @ 23:32:43
@Missa Said

Why is it so tough knowing that the person you loved so much moved on sooner then you thought.

And even to top it off, i still love him and i cant get over him!





it's so tough,because you still love him,if you didn't you wouldn't care what he done x
CaLyPsO On June 04, 2022
spankable deity





kent, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Jan 13, 2010 @ 23:38:27
it happens ..people get over things at different speeds..what is a lifetime of crap for you can be a minute of s*** for them ..its just how it is..someone has to make the move and move on xx
Missa On June 11, 2010




Lawrenceville, Virginia
#5New Post! Jan 13, 2010 @ 23:40:19
I just really hate this
LedZap On January 28, 2010

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In a nightmare,
#7New Post! Jan 14, 2010 @ 00:13:04
You could always make him a sandwich...



just kidding...you'll get over it.Hang in there.
shadowen On March 22, 2024




Bunyip Bend, Australia
#8New Post! Feb 06, 2010 @ 08:35:27
Love can be s***e eh! unfortunately you dont get to choose who you fall in love with, and if you genuinely loved someone those feelings dont simply disappear.

Keep yourself busy, surround yourself with friends who care about you and trust that in time it will get easier...

Hang in there
JR_Sanford On August 02, 2017




Portland (St. Johns), Oregon
#9New Post! Feb 06, 2010 @ 08:50:19
@Missa Said

Why is it so tough knowing that the person you loved so much moved on sooner then you thought.

And even to top it off, i still love him and i cant get over him!


I believe it's because you have a lot of emotional investment in that person. He has lots of space rented (leased) in your head. If you can find it within you to evict him from your thought processes, then you should find it easier to move forward with your life.

You say that you can't get over him. Well, maybe not right now, but time (away from him) should help. Tell yourself, "He's the one losing out." because he is. Make a gratitude list of some things you are grateful for. Keep it short and keep it heartfelt. That may help you feel a bit better about what's going on in your life.

It's good you found out when you did instead of more time down the road.

Good luck.

J.R.
Missa On June 11, 2010




Lawrenceville, Virginia
#10New Post! Feb 22, 2010 @ 21:07:32
NOW HE WANTS TO GO BACK OUT!!! I want to soo bad! I still do love him. I havent gotten over him.

What should i do?
ambivalence On March 10, 2010

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, Canada
#11New Post! Feb 22, 2010 @ 21:12:10
@Missa Said

NOW HE WANTS TO GO BACK OUT!!! I want to soo bad! I still do love him. I havent gotten over him.

What should i do?



Sit down and write down the pros and cons. Be very honest with the list.

If he left once and hurt you that bad you're going to be very insecure with him now and it will show.

Bottom line is it's up to you but be ready for the intense insecurities that come with taking him back.
sister_of_mercy On March 11, 2015




London, United Kingdom
#12New Post! Feb 22, 2010 @ 21:19:41
@Missa Said

NOW HE WANTS TO GO BACK OUT!!! I want to soo bad! I still do love him. I havent gotten over him.

What should i do?



Just try and think of it from all angles. Can you handle going through all the pain again? Was your relationship that good to begin with? Do you still love him and are you willing to put the past behind you and make a go of it?

I know how confused and stressed you must feel, but don't do anything until you are 100% sure it's what you want. You don't want to end up regretting it.
Missa On June 11, 2010




Lawrenceville, Virginia
#13New Post! Feb 22, 2010 @ 21:25:40
He said that everyone has been tellin him to go forward and not backwards. He also said that hes tired of listening to what others say and that he should of listened to his heart in the first place.

His status on myspace is: Hoping that my girl of my dreams take me back.

His signature for his cell phone is NEED HER BACK
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