@Jeanne Said
Get yourself that book written by the producers of Sex and the City "He's just not that into you"
I wasted a lot of time and tears on guys who were "not that into me" and when I read the book I realised if someone likes you, REALY likes you they will DO something about it. If they aren't doing much effort then they aren't worth it!!!!
Kudos to Jeanne, I'll support these words.
If a guy likes a girl, he
will do something about it, he will show it and he'll try to get you. It is that simple.