The way I see it is that just because they are family, does not mean you have to like them or even love them. I know I sound mean but please hear me out.
In life there are good people and bad people. Those of good character and those of bad character. We try to be around those who are of good character and these are the people we allow ito our lives. We don't let our friends do certain things to us so why allow a family member too just becuase they are family?
When they hurt us, when they destroy us, when the are out just for themselves we don't have to like them or love them.
Only have good people in your life, people who are kind and have the qualities you look for. If your brother lacks these qualities that are important to you, there is nothing wrong with not liking him or loving him.
People bring us down and we don't have to tolerate it from anyone.
I only speak to my mother when I have to. I wish her no harm or anything. She is just not a good person and causes me more harm that good. I don't allow friends to treat me like that so why should I just because she is my mother?
Don't feel bad at all. I do understand your anger because we expect a higher standard from our families.
Aug 05, 2009 @ 23:58:05
