So my friend had been with her boyfriend for almost four years, suddenly one day the boy says he doesn't love her anymore and leaves.
Since 15 they both had been together, the boy ignored her for months after the break up, and than out of nowhere comes back, and says he wants to be with her again, she's ok and they are together for one week before he dumps her again. Now he sees her one or twice a week and they have act like they are in a relationship still.
1.) I don't know the exact details, but basically I guess, he originally said he didn't love her anymore, and then later decided he did love her and "just" wanted to be single, than dated her and realized he didn't love her, now loves her and is intimate with her but wont date her.
wtf?
Anyone want to try explaining what might be going on in that boy's head? Is he just confused because he was with her so long or is he just looking for sex with out commitment? (that's what I think) Or is it something else, What do you think?
2.) How do I get her to snap out of it and get away from that wishy washy louse?
I know it's not my place to tell her what to do, but maybe some way to open her eyes... to get her to see that this is ridiculous, she thinks he's going to ask her to be with him again, even if he did, he obviously doesn't seem to care about how she feels or how she's being affected by this whole thing.
Maybe this should be in the "Rants & Raves" section.
Hope that made sense...it's hard to explain things about people to people that don't know the people I'm trying to explain about.