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Mysteria On May 19, 2014
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A Small Town, Texas
#46New Post! Jul 21, 2009 @ 19:34:27
Some of the posts are confusing to me. I don't think attacking someone is doing them a favor. Violence is a last resort, in my opinion. I taught my son to be respectful and avoid fighting because it's not worth it. No one deserves to be beaten or verbally abused.
doubtingthomas On April 26, 2010
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Monterey, California
#47New Post! Jul 21, 2009 @ 19:56:05
@Mysteria Said

Some of the posts are confusing to me. I don't think attacking someone is doing them a favor. Violence is a last resort, in my opinion. I taught my son to be respectful and avoid fighting because it's not worth it. No one deserves to be beaten or verbally abused.



When you say its not worth it.

Whats not worth it? The pain? the outcome? the reprisal?

Why avoid it?

I disagree with you on the idea that "No one deserves to be beaten or verbally abused" A great many people deserve just that.


** not listed in order of importance**
Child molesters, tail gaters, those people who save 20 seats in the middle of the movie theater, people who talk though movies, rapists, the list goes on...

A great many people in this world need a stern verbal attack and sometimes an a** kicking.

What I want to know is, when did legal reprisal and non-violance take over from the good old fasion fist fight?

Hell... kids can't even fight in play grounds anymore.. what is this world comming to?
jonnythan On August 02, 2014
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Here and there,
#48New Post! Jul 21, 2009 @ 20:01:26
@doubtingthomas Said
What I want to know is, when did legal reprisal and non-violance take over from the good old fasion fist fight?


About the same time racism and sexism went out of style.

The fact that these are correlated is not coincidence.

@doubtingthomas Said
Hell... kids can't even fight in play grounds anymore.. what is this world comming to?


Enlightenment.
surveybeast13 On June 16, 2010




Longmont, Colorado
#49New Post! Jul 21, 2009 @ 20:09:09
Most people these days have gotten in the habit of verbal confrontations rather than taking care of things like men. Its a habit of dweebs! Another reason why people dont fight anymore is because when anything bad or hurtful happens to a spoiled dweeb, they sue. But whachagunnadoo?
Mysteria On May 19, 2014
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A Small Town, Texas
#50New Post! Jul 21, 2009 @ 20:09:12
@doubtingthomas Said

When you say its not worth it.

Whats not worth it? The pain? the outcome? the reprisal?

Why avoid it?

I disagree with you on the idea that "No one deserves to be beaten or verbally abused" A great many people deserve just that.


** not listed in order of importance**
Child molesters, tail gaters, those people who save 20 seats in the middle of the movie theater, people who talk though movies, rapists, the list goes on...

A great many people in this world need a stern verbal attack and sometimes an a** kicking.

What I want to know is, when did legal reprisal and non-violance take over from the good old fasion fist fight?

Hell... kids can't even fight in play grounds anymore.. what is this world comming to?



I agree with the ones in bold deserving a beating, but vigilante justice isn't right. We have the justice system for those crimes.

I taught my son that violence is the last resort unless he needs to defend himself. That's what I meant when I said it's not worth it.
Thranduil On August 31, 2013




QUINCY, Kentucky
#51New Post! Jul 22, 2009 @ 19:34:36
Why have a fist fight? when you can get 'em in a leg lock and hear sound of their knee or ankle breaking??
treebee On April 13, 2015
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London, United Kingdom
#52New Post! Jul 22, 2009 @ 19:45:22
People use physical force for all the wrong reasons nowadays.
boxerdc On December 18, 2012

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#53New Post! Jul 22, 2009 @ 22:49:06
@treebee Said

People use physical force for all the wrong reasons nowadays.


I only use it to stop other people from blowing their car horns, and to initiate sex.
Brimikitrodg On August 20, 2009




Jacksonville, Florida
#54New Post! Jul 27, 2009 @ 17:52:19
I need more information to weigh in, were you in the same parking space as someone else? Was it already occupied when you placed yourself in it? If so, then your personal honor seems more like pride. Society has norms in place that guide and direct our personal lives and how we interact with each other. If you parked in an already taken space, then you are having difficulty obeying by society's informal rules and are actually seeking conflict, my friend is this way. He believes he is a bad ass, but he is actually stupid compared to the people around him. He gets into conflict because he can't read between the lines and has trouble observing other people's behavior, not because of what others are doing towards him. I've made him aware of this and he still behaves that way, which I think is awesome and hilarious, as long as he knows what hes doing. If he thinks people are actually doing him wrong, that would just be ignorant on his part, and that wouldn't be hilarious at all, just annoying.
kentoo On October 26, 2010




Salmon Arm, Canada
#55New Post! Jul 27, 2009 @ 18:07:21
I agree that fighting can at times remove the feelings of anger, but it does little to resolve the cause.
Heidi On October 07, 2009




Heidelberg, Germany
#56New Post! Sep 19, 2009 @ 05:23:40
Yes, at one time, people with anger were told to find something inanimate to take their anger out on: pillows, punching bags, throwing and breaking things in private, yelling/screaming. Kicking the cat did not count! Violence should only be used as a last resort - to protect yourself and your family. Walking away is not easy.
buffalobill90 On July 12, 2013
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Viaticum, United Kingdom
#57New Post! Sep 19, 2009 @ 13:37:02
@doubtingthomas Said

I have been in a number of verbal confrontations in the past few months. Mostly with strangers on the street about random things. All of them could have ended quite plesantly with a fist fight.

I'm not talking about permanent damage to either combatant just enuff make sure that both people "left it in the street" so to speak. Its healthy and I think the world would be a better and a more honorable place.

What happened to fist fights? Where did they go? When did they turn into "O you punched me in the face, I'm going to sue you for assault!" Which is total chicken s***.

Do you think the world would be better with them ?

Have you gotten into one recently if so what was the outcome?

I'll tell you my quick story.

I parked my motorcycle in the same parking place as a POS VW bug. The guy could easily get out of the parking place with a little manuvering, it is a vw bug afterall. I was in the store for all of 5 mins and the guy was leaving the same time I was.

He says to me like a smart ass. "I'm glad you came out when you did, I don't know if I could gotten out without hitting your bike"
So I said to him. "well I'm leaving this very second so its better for both of us that I did".

The guy couldn't leave it alone, so while I'm putting on my helmet he gives me a lecture about how I feel I'm entitled to park there. Its a gd parking place for FFS, not your families honor!. He then puts his VW bug in neutral and rolls forward inches from my motorcycle, and says "See!" I said to him "lucky you hit the break you almost ended up with a broken nose"... more words where exchanged ... but nothing ever came to blows.

Don't you think if we had a honest to good ness fist fight right there on the street, both of our lifes would have more meaning? He would have gotten out all his anger about me infringing on his parking spot and I would have gotten break his nose.

No charges filled, both personal honors upheald... and maybe next time, i would think twice about sharing a parking place and this guy would think twice about mouthing off to someone much bigger than him shareing a parking place.

It all seems simple to me.



Yeah, a little casual violence never hurt anybody.

Fighting is a pathetic way of solving disputes. If you can't have a confrontation with someone without physically attacking them, there's something wrong with you.

I've been assaulted before for no reason whatsoever, and I'm just glad that I had the law on my side.
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