@MingLee Said
I have spent that last week taking AP tests at the local high school. One of the teachers who administered the tests is the Old Foggy's friend. The teacher is a special education teacher who tries to teach math to slower students. The Old Foggy is a volunteer, who tries to do the same thing. I met the teacher several months ago when she took a math course. It had something to do with her qualification to be a math teacher. The material in the course, or at least the part I saw, was junior and senior high school math. She struggled with it, and she asked the Old Foggy for help. He asked me to help her because he thought if I could explain it to her, I would better understand it. We spent four Saturdays I her kitchen.
Along with learning math, I learned this woman?s biography. About twenty years ago, her husband left her with a teenage daughter and a two-year-old son. She says that her husband never paid child support, and she worked as a waitress in restaurants to earn a living. When her son was older, she needed to fill the father?s roll, and because her work if food service left her too tired to be a soccer or baseball coach, she switched to substitute teaching. Her son is an adult now, and over that last several years she has earned her teaching credential.
In my never to be humble opinion, this is one plucky lady. She could have lived her life as a welfare queen because when her husband left, women with children could live on welfare and never work. She has neighbors who appear to have done exactly that, the evidence being that when they buy groceries, they use food stamps.
That brings me to the point of all this blather. Crime and poverty may go together; Democrats and poverty may go together; but poverty has another connection that may be more important. Generous welfare encourages people to be poor, but like the woman in this story, with some incentive, or at least in the absence of the disincentive of welfare, they might support themselves.
I agree about how incentive works to help people help themselves. The woman you are talking about is a shining case of acomplishment and you probably have a huge advantage just knowing her. Here, though, is my consistant problem with the view on "welfare moms"
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Generous welfare encourages people to be poor
It's quite the contrary. Let's look at the example in Les Miserables.
ValJean steals the loaf of bread because his poverty stricken family cannot eat. He feels that he must steal because there is no way for him to earn the money, there is no help or sympathy out there for him, correct? (Pardon me....
Les Miserables is one of my favorite stories). When he is finally set free, he is unwelcomed in most areas and certainly not hireable because he is a thief. He, turns to stealing again, but, the extreme generosity of the Priest that he steals from is what opens his eyes up, seeing that there is better out there, and he needs to change his ways. This part of the story line is probably the most wonderful expression of following in Jesus' ways that I have ever seen.
Even later, you see Fantine, a young woman who is despirately doing what it takes to give her daughter a better life after being seduced and betrayed by a callous rich boy. She is reduced to poverty, also, and, for her honest work, is thrown out on the street from her real job, and lands herself in prostitution (which was a crime)so that she could give her daughter a better life (or at least what she thought was a better life, as the Inn Keepers were no better than crooks themselves).
Then, you look, and that one simple act of honest generosity gave Fantine the life that she always wanted for Cossette. ValJean uses the money he earns from the candle sticks the priest let him have and becomes wealthy and takes Cossette in. Proper generosity is almost always an incentive.
America is a country where you almost have to force people to be generous to one another. This is why welfare is in place. Is it fair to children of women who can't afford to go to college and get a better job to live without health care and food?
Welfare, the way it is, is flawed yes, but to allow from children to starve is just not acceptable to me.
I also reiderate:
When I first became a mom, I refused welfare. I worked hard, and I did it mostly on my own, with some help from my mom. No one else tried to help me, she was my only support. Soon, it was a choice of my child eating, or loosing a place to live. A no win situation, so, I went on welfare. I, was just about off welfare, and able to sustain myself by working, but then the laws changed, and, and an extremely low income, welfare was ripped from me and my children before I was ready to be able to pay for medical insurance, and food, and rent. I had to lower my income just so that I could afford to live. I certainly didn't want to, but I couldn't afford a better job, I couldn't afford school, and my children had needs that had to be met.
Now, I'm working hard. I've saved up some money, I'm taking Pharmacy Technician courses on line. It's only a 30,000/yr job, but that triples my current income. With the average pay of a Pharm Tech, I should be able to afford to go back to school to become a Pharmacist. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, because by damned if my kids won't be able to go to school just because I can't afford to send them.