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chueh On July 03, 2009




atlanta, Georgia
#1New Post! Apr 04, 2009 @ 15:27:36
Although it is not critical, I am just curious about the difference between my husband and me.

My husband is a dreamer and has a lot of fantasies. Sometimes, his thinking is out of conventional; he always gives me suggestions that are not general practices. I, on the other hand, are very practical, even though I am very emotional.

He can sit down and watch anything right at the spot and totally into it. I, on the contrary, cannot watch any movies in the middle.

He prioritizes entertaining more than anything else. He rather watches TV and movies first, and then do important things later. Once he is hooked by watching something, he would finish it, no matter hos late it is. On the other hand, even if I am into the story of a movie and get pretty emotional about it, I can turn the TV set off and go to bed. I consider health is more important than watching a story who is produced on the screen.

This happens a lot. I go to bed earlier than he does. I told him last night that I felt very sleep and would go to bed. I asked him if he would too. He said that I was a robot who had no emotional impact from stories. I totally disagree, but I cannot change his thinking or his personality. I think that I am just a practical person who prioritizes health more than movies and can separate the reality from movies more than he does, despite of my being emotional affected by stories.

Any comments?
sAeGeSpAeNe On October 05, 2021
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#2New Post! Apr 04, 2009 @ 17:27:45
Welcome to married life.

What do you do when husband is not around?
PsyLvr On April 23, 2020




Northern California, Californi
#3New Post! Mar 28, 2020 @ 19:29:32
My wifey and I are similar.

I am always game for something new. I'll be the one to say "Here, hold my beer .." while I contemplate where I want to jump offa that bridge. She's the one that says "Woa, wait a minute, it looks shallow ..."

I'd of been dead a long time ago if it wasn't for her.

But, I do sometimes wonder about her judgement in choosing mates.
We been together for 35 years April 10.
mrmhead On March 27, 2024




NE, Ohio
#4New Post! Mar 28, 2020 @ 20:57:40
@PsyLvr Said

My wifey and I are similar.

I am always game for something new. I'll be the one to say "Here, hold my beer .." while I contemplate where I want to jump offa that bridge. She's the one that says "Woa, wait a minute, it looks shallow ..."

I'd of been dead a long time ago if it wasn't for her.

But, I do sometimes wonder about her judgement in choosing mates.
We been together for 35 years April 10.


Welcome



It would take a whole new forum to list the differences between me and my wife of soon-to-be 32 years.
PsyLvr On April 23, 2020




Northern California, Californi
#5New Post! Mar 28, 2020 @ 22:03:33
OP ... how long you been married?
mrmhead On March 27, 2024




NE, Ohio
#6New Post! Mar 29, 2020 @ 02:06:36
@PsyLvr Said

OP ... how long you been married?



You might notice the OP was from 2009.

Chances are you won't get a reply.
PsyLvr On April 23, 2020




Northern California, Californi
#7New Post! Mar 29, 2020 @ 02:15:35
@mrmhead Said

You might notice the OP was from 2009.

Chances are you won't get a reply.



Oh yea
Did not see that.
I'm new here.

Not much in the way of action, eh?
Is this forum new?
mrmhead On March 27, 2024




NE, Ohio
#8New Post! Mar 29, 2020 @ 02:22:13
@PsyLvr Said

Oh yea
Did not see that.
I'm new here.

Not much in the way of action, eh?
Is this forum new?


No, just small- well, now it is.

I joined after it's heyday.
PsyLvr On April 23, 2020




Northern California, Californi
#9New Post! Mar 29, 2020 @ 03:58:38
@mrmhead Said

No, just small- well, now it is.

I joined after it's heyday.



What happened?
The mods got too agressive?
I've seen that before in other forums ...
mrmhead On March 27, 2024




NE, Ohio
#10New Post! Mar 29, 2020 @ 13:44:29
@PsyLvr Said

What happened?
The mods got too agressive?
I've seen that before in other forums ...



No not at all - at least from what I've heard / seen.

Just a migration away to either other social platforms or .. life.

Personally, I like the slower boards.
If I come back to a thread 3 hours later and there's 20 new posts, I spend what little time I have reading and catching up, rather than replying and participating.
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