@sonike Said
Should I get back with an ex who cheated on me three years ago. Haven't been able to love another since and we still really love each other.
This is a tough situation and I do sympathise. For most women, an indiscretion is all thats needed to get over an ex pretty well. This has obviously not been the case for you.
The worst that can happen is that he is lying and he cheats on your again. You may have heard of the saying "Fool me once, shame on you....fool me twice, shame on me."
Do you know why he cheated? Has he changed? I don't mean has he told you he's changed, but do you observe a change in him?
I'm intrigued that you say 'we still really love each other' - how many relationships has he had since you? How many have you had since him? You sau you haven't been able to love another....I wonder about him though.
I'm not trying to be cruel here, but if this guy has had 19 gf's during your time apart and now wants you back, I just wouldn't buy it. That would sound more like loneliness and convenience to me than love.
Like I said, the worst that can happen is that he breaks your heart again. Maybe that's what you will need to truly get over him - and if he doesn't cheat, well, perhaps you were meant to be together. I just don't understand why it's taken 3 years for him to beg for you back - and if he isn't begging, you shouldn't even consider it.
You don't give anyone 2 chances to kick you in the guts without abject begging. My POV anyway.