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howtosavealife On September 13, 2009

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Neverland, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Jun 14, 2008 @ 18:46:19
My best guy friend of 2 years told me last night that hes in love with me.....

hes just text me now asking if i feel the same...

which i definatley dont, it would be like being with my brother, hes too close a friend too me, its just weird thinking of that...

now hes a really sensitive person....hes been hurt alot..

im just confused on what on earth too say too him without ruining the friendship or lying or....whatever?

Chrill On August 01, 2022
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Järfälla, Sweden
#2New Post! Jun 14, 2008 @ 18:47:55
Straight forward, tell him that he's like your best friend and you would never want that to change. You do not love him the way he loves you, though, and make it very clear that you do not. A had a friend in the same seat, she told the guy, he turned her down in a fair but straight manner and they are still friends today
harrie85 On August 08, 2008




Bury St Edmunds, United Kingdo
#4New Post! Jun 19, 2008 @ 15:54:16
Be honest with him. If youre not one or both of you will end up getting hurt. I was in the same situation as he is with you with a guy and i wish he had been honest with me from the start as he just fooled me along with maybes and offers of half relationships we now dont talk would have been so much better off if id known where i stood from the start.
littleeva On June 24, 2008




Charlotte, North Carolina
#5New Post! Jun 19, 2008 @ 17:59:17
Situations like this are just icky. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. You need to be kind and straight forward, but if he really is in love with you, it might be difficult to maintain a friendship, at least for the time being. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Asme251 On December 21, 2017
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Boston, Massachusetts
#6New Post! Jun 22, 2008 @ 05:21:41
Ohh! I know! First, you need to stalk him. Make sure you know his every movements and routines. Second, if you could afford it, make him "disappear", if not keep stalking him so you can avoid him as much as you can. If he still insists on loving you then just move out and go to canada and create a new identity and buy a new house and all that clandestine stuff so he can't stalk you for stalking him.
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