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princessbubblegum On June 23, 2009

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#16New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 00:59:07
@annski729 Said
I don't see how they could turn down the beard

And yeah I suppose it could go either way. "Nice girl" I mean. Anyone who isn't assertive enough.


I am a "Nice girl" and I have a "Nice Guy" for a boyfriend.....lol Maybe we are weird
alexkidd On February 07, 2012
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#17New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:04:43
@annski729 Said
I don't see how they could turn down the beard

And yeah I suppose it could go either way. "Nice girl" I mean. Anyone who isn't assertive enough.



the beard always gets them in the end.

i guess its mainly about confidence,
also i rarely have the inclination to chase women around and flatter them, which in spite of the complaints when it comes from the wrong guy, girls do like to be sought after in my experience.

alot of 'nice guys' i'd imagine are a little too respectful to make such a bold move.

i've never had any problem with girls really,
i'd go after the occasional one i liked. since i became single again though a few months ago i seem pretty inept to be honest.
i'm a little rusty after 2 years.
annski729 On July 24, 2016




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#18New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:05:05
@rosewillow Said
As baddass as I am I love the nice guys.


rosewillow On July 19, 2015

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#19New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:09:14
@alexkidd Said

girls do like to be sought after in my experience.


I think thats it. Nice guys don't go after the girls, therefore they don't get them.

But I do think you can be confident and funny and all that and still be a nice guy.
princessbubblegum On June 23, 2009

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#20New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:10:24
@drummerwannabe Said
I totally agree.. but there is also nice girls finish last too. For example, I'm not lucky in the dating world, but I have tons of guy friends. I listen to them and help them through their problems.

I'm a great friend to guys, but once I try to show interest in them, they just write me off as a friend. I have to also say that I'm not a very assertive person and I'm shy, so maybe that's it?


hmmm, idk... I have always been the "nice girl" of the bunch....I think guy's, when they are ready to settle down, really do want the nice girl.
drummerwannabe On June 17, 2019
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In a drum.., Minnesota
#21New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:11:24
@princessbubblegum Said
hmmm, idk... I have always been the "nice girl" of the bunch....I think guy's, when they are ready to settle down, really do want the nice girl.


I hope so
alexkidd On February 07, 2012
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in a bog, Ireland
#22New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:16:20
@rosewillow Said

But I do think you can be confident and funny and all that and still be a nice guy.


add damn handsome and fantasticly talented in bed and thats me!
ugly_ducky On September 30, 2008




Jurassic Pond,
#23New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:18:07
A friend told me nice guys finish fast, I tend to agree.
edwin_starr On September 17, 2007




Morecambe, United Kingdom
#24New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:20:25
I dunno, I am a nice guy and everything but as I get older I'm starting to become very bitter and twisted towards the world, I treat girls with respect most of the time but occasionally I can get really rattled if something happens which I don't particularly like. plus I absolutely hate getting turned down which makes me even more shy to the point of being slightly socially retarded (which is a really horrible and nasty word, which I don't like personally)
Forget_About_Me On June 22, 2014
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, Canada
#25New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:36:34
I love the nice guys, the whole bad boy thing never really did it for me.
gasolinerainbow On December 27, 2013




sha lalalaa..., United Kingdom
#26New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 01:45:15
i like an inbetween guy.
loveis On January 15, 2010
brat-inella


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#27New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 02:03:17
@666satan666 Said
I'm a nice guy & I dont finish last.

I usually come 1st !!!!


Why, you little devil you.
loveis On January 15, 2010
brat-inella


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#28New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 02:08:21
@jonnythan Said
Sensitive guys are all well and good, but no straight chick wants a pussy.

Confidence is important. Strength is important. Charm is important. Stability is important. Social skills are important.


That's why the "bad guys" have no problems getting girls - they exude strength, confidence, and charm. They may not *really* have all those qualities, but they *appear* to and that's why they can start relationships easily. It's also why they can't seem to maintain them.

The "nice guys" who can't get girls are the ones who generally bring nothing to the table. They're good friends, but they don't make girls feel safe, they don't make them laugh, they don't provide for them.


Humm, that was all very well said. 8)
MonkeyMadness On April 08, 2015
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Big Tree, United Kingdom
#29New Post! Jul 24, 2007 @ 05:04:41
I dont agree, i'm a nice guy and i'm sure I dont finnish last
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