i know i dont really know the situation, but from what i am getting from all of this, it doesnt seem like her parents are really going to care what she is out doing or who she is doing it will. If you say that her brothers care more then maybe tell them instead.
It seems like she is looking for a "daddy" it sounds as if her own didnt pay her enough attention or maybe so male paid her too much attention so now so is looking at other men, his age for needed affection.
If you do decide to tell her it will probably be one of the hardest conversations you have ever had, i'm sure she wont listen to you, because well what girl does listen to advise. lol As her friend i think you should do something, maybe just something as small as hang out with her more so that way she gets attention some where else.
But it seems that this problem is a mental issue, and is going to take more then just a conversation to fix.
I hope it works out whatever you decide to do
Jun 09, 2007 @ 02:22:28
mention one band to them and they prob have no idea who your talking about.... i know something bad will happen, and i know its only going to mess her up even more than she already is.. problem is its not that her parents dont care.. they just arnt really around that much to notice what shes doing.. its mostly her brother that shows the slightest bit of interest in her.. her mum and dad arnt bad parents they just see all their children as adults.. and basically work.. shes very good at hidng things... and can think up an excuse easily..
