Men change alright, after they leave you...

I just love how men all of a sudden do things after they break up with or divorce you that you could not get them to do when you were together. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Like for example, my soon to be ex husband is looking around to buy a house, but would never do that while we were together. Another of my exes said he would never get married (we were together for 6 years) and married a few months after we broke up. Things like that. Or even little things, like I had an ex that used to tell me tanning in a tanning bed was stupid and a waste of money, now he goes all the time.

To be fair it's not just men who do that sort of thing, it's just a strange world we live in I guess. However I am feeling generous so have a hug and cookie



**Gives you cookie **

Its because they learn that it causes their relationships to break up

or people just change all the time...sometimes without even realizing it.

To be fair, perhaps I should say, "The Men in My Life" hows that? lol Because i have yet to meet a decent guy. But I would love to be proven wrong, hell I've been waiting for just such a thing.

People are in a constant state of change, i wouldn't put yourself down about it

True, but don't you think it's a bit strange that a woman asks her bf/husband to do a certain thing and they refuse, then once they break up they do it? I'm thinking it's just a way to get back at the woman, to hurt them. That's how I view it!