i think im cursed

very soz. i mistook all the sarcasm thing. i do that alot. really soz thanks for helping though. 1 question. what do you do if ur bf never makes the 1st move and expects you to? then you dont make moves because you think he doesnt want you to then you break up and hmmm. that wont happen?

Ok, that won't happen, because men always make a move

thats a very good point. lol so basically play hard to get to start off with then let them in a little bit but dont be attache by the hip and only see each other max of twice a week so you dont get sick of each other. that helps

No no no!!

why twice a week? thats stupid, i see my boyfriend about 3/4 times a week

and my sister sees hers like 5/6 days a week and they've been together 2 and a half years.

But like i said, they act like friends, and mess about, like having play fights etc

Just yea, try to be yourself without being clingy

ok then. treat them as a really close friend and dont hug n kiss all the time especially in front of mates. ok got it ta

Hmm you can hug them and kiss em infront of mates, just dont overly do it, aaand, let him make 1st move, remember that one!

You are still very young and if you really have IBS you need to make getting that sorted out your priority, if you are not well and miserable all the time people wont want to be around you......think of the sort of people you like, people that interest you and why they interest you.......maybe you dont appear to be one of those types of people yourself, so you need to make yourself "attractive" to others!
Most of all DONT give yourself to a guy just so he'll like you, cous in the longrun he wont respect you for it or stay with you.