if love is real

Love can be a forever thing,
but you must choose to make that commitment,
and it is not always an easy thing,
but when done right,
is laways rewarding in the end.

not really, love isn't as great as it sounds...

It's just a desission you make to be honest...

wait...how would you know? ur not even married..as a matter a fact you dont even know the meaning of "love" (i havent fell in love yet but atleast i've seen it like i said in the begining)

excuse me?!

do you KNOW whether i've been inlove or not?!

do you KNOW that i'm not married?!

No you don't so don't go running around making assumptions!

first of all i saw your profile..what do u think iam? retarded? yeah your not married "teenagers" dont fall inlove..trust me is almost imposible for "teenagers" to fall in love...yeah im telling you this for you to stop b****ing and acting all high and powerful like you know everything and you've been through all this crap...honestly at this age your just getting started (i am too) and last thing i made this to ASK not for smart mouths like u..u should think before u say anythig..

oh really, i think YOU should think before you started talking to people older than you like this.

Um so what if it isn't put on my profile? do u think im gunna put my f***ing whole life on the internet, just flashing it about, no i think f***ing not.

and i'd like to let you know, teenagers DO fall inlove.

Many of my friends' parents met when they were my age or younger, and fell inlove, so how about don't talk aload of bull and make sure what you're saying IS true before you say it, so OH look who has to think before they say anything!

Oh and just incase you wanted info on my life, i am inlove.

And to be honest, i don't give a crap what you think about me not being able to fall inlove, you're 14.

Oh MY!

ok sorry..lets go bak to the topic...

To romantically love one that has the same blood running through their veins that is running through yours is simply unnatural and wrong. You would be incapable of having children without serious risks of birth defects because such a love goes against nature.

If I were to compare love to any other thing I would compare it to a rose.

Romantic love is a beautiful thing but it is a thing that needs cultivation as true love is the equivalent of a full bloom and this bloom must first start with a seed. One might feel that attraction or fondness that is the seed of love but at this point it is not unstoppable, it cannot fully bloom without the cultivation but this cultivation is simply wrong.

I dont agree with incest. For reasons stated previously such as birth defects. But if im honest I couldnt give two hoots about other peoples love lives.

I have enough trouble with my own. As long as noone is hurting me or my family i dont really care.

love is more than a raw emotion its a whole package of things imo. people become infatuated with a person and think its love, im sure stalkers 'believe' they are in love with their victims. how many murders are comitted by people who say 'i love you so much, if i cant have you know one can'.
love needs emotional maturity from both people in a relationship, some people never achieve that maturity and go thru endless relationships trying to find 'love'.
some people only ever really love themselves.
love isnt putting somone on a pedestal and thinking they can do no wrong its about being honest with each other and negotiating, its hanging in there when the going gets tough.
well thats my thoughts.

I agree with you. I think there is a fine line between love, lust and infatuation. Many people cant see the difference.

yep its very difficult i sometimes think schools should teach relationships along side sex ed.

there are a billion and one people in the world. why limit your gene pool to your cousin? ok love is love. but family love is so different to love for someone you are not related to.