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gonnabdabest On April 07, 2007




Enfeild,
#1New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 01:36:19
Hey. I need some help. My girlfriend, who I love So f***in much, gets angry easily. And recently her Ex boyfriend sent a threatening e-mail to her friends saying it was from her.Her friends got the e-mail and came to her house and took back all of her stuff that they gave to her. It made her so sad she cut her wrist four times with a thumbtack. I'm very concerned about her habits.Such as smoking, cutting herself when something makes her really sad, and many others.She tells me not to worry and that she'll stop, but I can't in good concience just sit here and let her keep slowly killing herself.I feel so helpless! I'm gonna kick her ex's a** for putting her through so, much pain.But, what should I do about the smoking and cutting? ( Among " Other" things)Please help.
el_diablo On December 19, 2008

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Maui, Hawaii
#2New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 01:40:29
Tell her parents or a school counselor.
squirt_aka_casey On April 21, 2018
BCW-Ant Destroyer





That place, Ohio
#3New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 02:00:40
That would be my suggestion.... go to an adult that you can trust who will get her the help that she needs.
littleozzybloke On June 19, 2008




Sunshine coast, Australia
#4New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 02:03:13
as to the cutting mate....you really need to be there for her...there is an underlying problem as to why she is a cutter...to cover other pain ra ra..very involved....

don't let it go on if this is the girl you have given your heart to and care about..you seem to have taken on more than you bargained for...BUT..love, caring, and patience, some counselling help can do miracles...

violence won't really solve things...only get yourself in the poo...and things can go wrong..(as they do)...and you might lose everything..

wish you the best..
undergroundpunk On December 17, 2010




Las Vegas, Nevada
#5New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 02:33:31
Hahahahahahahaha!

Oh i'm sorry. I wouldn't advise her to quit smoking, That just makes people angrier. And inbetween those 5 minutes of smoking, it will give her more time to think. Which I think we both know what might lead to.

I'm sorry if I find peoples misfortunes hillarious. But I can't help it.
undergroundpunk On December 17, 2010




Las Vegas, Nevada
#6New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 02:35:33
@gonnabdabest Said
Hey. I need some help. My girlfriend, who I love So f***in much, gets angry easily.


I don't think f***ing is the greatest thing to describe love.
Forget_About_Me On June 22, 2014
Victory is mine!





, Canada
#7New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 02:46:30
Just try and be there for her. Only she can make herself stop and get help. But let her know that no matter what happens you love her and will be there.
gonnabdabest On April 07, 2007




Enfeild,
#8New Post! Oct 26, 2006 @ 19:57:12
Her parents know.She is getting sprcial help. In fact her mom buys and shares her cigarettes with her. Even tho she just dumped me today, I still love her. By the way "undergroundpunk" this isn't even close to funny.

I'm sorry if I think you're an a*****e. But, I can't help it.
chipmunkinator On January 21, 2016




Portsmouth, United Kingdom
#9New Post! Oct 27, 2006 @ 15:23:01
show her this, the effects of smoking:

chipmunkinator On January 21, 2016




Portsmouth, United Kingdom
#10New Post! Oct 27, 2006 @ 15:23:51
....or this
treebee On April 13, 2015
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London, United Kingdom
#11New Post! Oct 27, 2006 @ 15:24:42
https://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html
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