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ThePainefulTruth On May 06, 2013
Verum est Deus


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Peoria, Arizona
#46New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 11:02:57
@Electric_Banana Said

Let's say I'm outside the grocery store and I see a forty year old man raping a thirteen year old girl in an alley - this would fall a lot closer into that category of 'stupidity' that I was talking about from the start.


That's not stupid, it's evil.
Sweet_Merry On October 01, 2023
One day. . . I will





Building my Castles in the Sky
#47New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 11:04:23
@Electric_Banana Said

I don't.....not unless their actions or logics result in me losing bling or hurts me or others.

Let's put it this way

I'm standing in a grocery store and I see a kid stuff his jacket with candy bars.

I don't care - not my candy bars and nobody is going to die because of it.

Let's say I'm outside the grocery store and I see a forty year old man raping a thirteen year old girl in an alley - this would fall a lot closer into that category of 'stupidity' that I was talking about from the start.


The kids stealing hurts the store owners, workers, users by cutting into profits, raising prices, loosing jobs.

Little, big, they all hurt each other. You justify what you think is smaller but condemn the larger because you see the direct hurt.
Electric_Banana 0 minutes ago




, New Zealand
#48New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 11:15:56
@ThePainefulTruth Said

That's not stupid, it's evil.



Nowadays the term 'evil' seems to have glory, prestige and suggest craft, guile, wit, genius and something to worry about.

"Stupid" or "intellectually impeded" is less complimentary.
Electric_Banana 0 minutes ago




, New Zealand
#49New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 11:19:29
@Sweet_Merry Said

The kids stealing hurts the store owners, workers, users by cutting into profits, raising prices, loosing jobs.

Little, big, they all hurt each other. You justify what you think is smaller but condemn the larger because you see the direct hurt.



Pretty much. I don't necessarily justify the small stuff - I just don't sweat it.
Sweet_Merry On October 01, 2023
One day. . . I will





Building my Castles in the Sky
#50New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 11:31:20
@Electric_Banana Said

Ha! A GED is nothing to be ashamed of, I've got one myself, and I refuse to call myself a "drop out." Instead I refer to myself as a "surviving escapee."

You know at age seventeen I dropped a hit of acid because I wanted to hallucinate and see crazy things. At the time I dropped that hit of LSD I never once considered that I was going to be alive for a long time afterwards and that the brain is such a major and critically important part of us.

Even at age seventeen I still wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed.

You're right, everyone learns in different ways and at different speeds.

But I still refuse to give credit for competence to murderers and cons and at the least they should be detained in correctional facilities, away from society, where they are not going to accidentally put somebody's eye out with their stupidity.


Sorry, I didn't see this one.

I never thought I'd live to see 30 because at the time it seemed so far away.


@Electric_Banana Said

Pretty much. I don't necessarily justify the small stuff - I just don't sweat it.


"Murder, slavery, megadeath, and sexually taking advantage of children are extremes and obviously bad.

Let's get down to the small witch hunting like the guy on the street corner with a cigarette always poking out of his face. "


You already threw out the big stuff. I thought it was the small stuff we were sweating.

Like the stealing in stores which gives the trickle down effect.
Electric_Banana 0 minutes ago




, New Zealand
#51New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 12:57:19
@Sweet_Merry Said

Sorry, I didn't see this one.

I never thought I'd live to see 30 because at the time it seemed so far away.




"Murder, slavery, megadeath, and sexually taking advantage of children are extremes and obviously bad.

Let's get down to the small witch hunting like the guy on the street corner with a cigarette always poking out of his face. "


You already threw out the big stuff. I thought it was the small stuff we were sweating.

Like the stealing in stores which gives the trickle down effect.



There's a method to my madness. I usually don't criticize or take action unless there is a dire reason to. It has to be something seriously bad and it has to take place right in front of me where I see it with my own eyes.

I'm not righteous and I don't go out of my way looking for what others may or may not be doing wrong.

Unless I'm at work because I'm a security guard but once again I'm a pretty laid back liberal guard. I'll go out of my way not to make small situations big situations.
Richard142 On February 15, 2015




Greater London, United Kingdom
#52New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 13:04:14
I live in a block of flats with lockable mail boxex outside. The lock to mine has jammed so I can't get into it. I'm paranoid enough to think this was done deliberatly and can be easily re-done if I'm able to get it open. To me this is a bad act and that I'm disliked sufficiently for someone to deliberatly do this saddens me. Just like my mail I'm trapped.
Richard142 On February 15, 2015




Greater London, United Kingdom
#53New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 13:08:06
@treebee Said

I dont have free will.


Any one able to contribute to this forum demonstrates a high level of free will. That we can't have total control over our lives shows there will always be limits to free will but mostly there are choices. More informed choices and ability then the greater the free will.
chisa96 On December 29, 2014
Supreme Goddess





Out in Nature, Wisconsin
#54New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 13:54:08
@Electric_Banana Said

I think you might be talking in defense of people whom do petty grey area things and are held under accusation in contrast to another individual's sense of self-righteousness.

I'm talking about extreme circumstances that involve harming or taking away from another.

Example: My smoking habit is no one else's business because it doesn't take away from them.

However if I'm stealing from the cancer research donation jar to buy my porn, I am taking away from and hurting others.



I'm not really talking in defense of anyone; if someone does something that is wrong in your perspective, then that doesn't change just because they don't think it's a problem.

But though I was talking about a smaller example, it can really be applied to anyone. Even Hitler thought he was doing good for the world; Jews were subhuman and their suffering was no worse animals in a lab, a controversial wrong at most. Slavers were giving their slaves a place to stay and a civilized example. Killing of innocents has been carried out by every culture in the history of the world in the name of war; we protect our people and destroy our enemies.

In any of these examples are people who are not justifying, but due to their values and their perspective they genuinely don't believe themselves to be doing anything bad or evil. Obviously this doesn't apply to everyone who does something that we deem as wrong; there are plenty of people who commit evils even though their own values and culture tell them it's wrong.

I was just bringing up the differences in values as one part of why people do wrong.
someone_else On August 30, 2012
Not a dude.


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American Alps, Washington
#55New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 14:16:53
@Richard142 Said

I live in a block of flats with lockable mail boxex outside. The lock to mine has jammed so I can't get into it. I'm paranoid enough to think this was done deliberatly and can be easily re-done if I'm able to get it open. To me this is a bad act and that I'm disliked sufficiently for someone to deliberatly do this saddens me. Just like my mail I'm trapped.



My husband tends to think this way. It's so strange to me...it seems 'poor self-esteem' and yet 'egotistical' at the same time - and I'm not saying this to try to put you down.

I don't usually say it because I think it will be taken wrong, but the thing to remember is..."Not everything is about you ."

The jamming of the lock may have been someone mistakenly thinking that your box was theirs and they broke it trying to use their key. Or, they may have been trying to steal things from mail boxes and broke yours...but you may not have been a specific target.

If someone does something out of dislike for you, the would probably do something more personal, like scratch a word into the paint on your car. They're not going to make you wonder.
ThePainefulTruth On May 06, 2013
Verum est Deus


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Peoria, Arizona
#56New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:55:33
@Electric_Banana Said

Nowadays the term 'evil' seems to have glory, prestige and suggest craft, guile, wit, genius and something to worry about.

"Stupid" or "intellectually impeded" is less complimentary.


I go by the book definition, which I will now paraphrase. Evil is violating the rights of others to their life, liberty or property. Emotion, not intelligence, can be the only process justifying such a violation. Intelligence does however figure into the sophistication of the scheme to violate those rights and not getting caught in the process. Prisons are mostly full of idiots, but there're also some geniuses.

For every Sherlock Holmes, there is a Moriarty.
Electric_Banana 0 minutes ago




, New Zealand
#57New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 20:51:55
@Richard142 Said

I live in a block of flats with lockable mail boxex outside. The lock to mine has jammed so I can't get into it. I'm paranoid enough to think this was done deliberatly and can be easily re-done if I'm able to get it open. To me this is a bad act and that I'm disliked sufficiently for someone to deliberatly do this saddens me. Just like my mail I'm trapped.



That's an assinine thing for someone to do and even worse would have been if they busted the lock so that the box always remained open so that they could pinch from it.

This kind of thing frustrates me to no end.

We had one guy, here in NZ, lose it and chase down and stab a kid that kept repeatedly spray painting graffiti on his house.

Yeah those are small things that actually hurt people. Busting my mail box may not be as extreme as raping a child but the person that can justify doing it isn't too far off from the latter if they were ever placed in that situation with that opportunity.
abila On November 29, 2010




Valle Mines, Missouri
#58New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 21:05:37
The devil does exist-but again free will determines the actions-good or bad.
Electric_Banana 0 minutes ago




, New Zealand
#59New Post! Oct 26, 2010 @ 21:12:04
@ThePainefulTruth Said

I go by the book definition, which I will now paraphrase. Evil is violating the rights of others to their life, liberty or property. Emotion, not intelligence, can be the only process justifying such a violation. Intelligence does however figure into the sophistication of the scheme to violate those rights and not getting caught in the process. Prisons are mostly full of idiots, but there're also some geniuses.

For every Sherlock Holmes, there is a Moriarty.


I consider Evil to be someone violating another while purely aware and conscience of themselves and what they are doing.

Obviously, however, for someone to harm another while completely aware of themselves and everything else, there still has to be some intellectual deficiency taking place.

Most violators are not clever enough to have turned over into that state of mind and are driven by rudimentary selfish yearning to feed desire and ego.

While most others don't have mind at all in which case they could not be labeled as good or evil but merely zombies. I don't question why these individuals harm others when I'm impressed that they were able to make it out the door without repeatedly bashing into the wall next to it over and over again.
ThePainefulTruth On May 06, 2013
Verum est Deus


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Peoria, Arizona
#60New Post! Oct 27, 2010 @ 12:41:31
@abila Said

The devil does exist-but again free will determines the actions-good or bad.


No, the Devil is just a word for the urge to satisfy ourselves by violating others. Evil is when we follow that urge. To say that the Devil exists is to say that God created evil. He didn't. We do that all by ourselves.


@Electric_Banana Said

I consider Evil to be someone violating another while purely aware and conscience of themselves and what they are doing.

Obviously, however, for someone to harm another while completely aware of themselves and everything else, there still has to be some intellectual deficiency taking place.


Why? It's nothing more than declaring "I am more worthy than you", or "You're worthless". They rarely even give lip service to justifying their stance, and when they do, it's complete emotion. But then yeah, I guess you could call a complete avoidance of intellect a deficiency.
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