she told me she was Biaexual

@Komentenmelodie Said

I had though exactly the same thing as I was writing my last reply. Very sadly now there is way to much "pc" thing that things that are "normal" are no longer seen as so. I feel that the "pendulem" have swung far to much the other way now so what was the accepted "norm" cannot stand on its own legs anymore without seeing as being discriminatory which is all wrong! Case in point there is a show on tv here that by the name of it is clearly aimed at a certain demographic. Personally I am offended that the tv company calls it by this name because if it was a different dempgraphic I feel very sure that the original one would accuse the new name of the same!! I do not feel that you can have your cake & eat it!!

@offbeat Said

well, she felt the unstoppable urge to tell me because I said that being pansexual meant shagging anything with a pulse. her sense of justice ( she's a Libran apparently ) forced her to explain my error, and to fully back up her view she felt compelled to confess to once being a pansexual. and then she went on to say that she has now scaled back to being bisexual. this is all well and good but will count for little if she doesn't give me a blow by blow account of her first session of girl on girl action ... that's if it ever happens of course.

@cole Said

She's not had girl/girl action? How on either does she come to the conclusions she's bi/tri/pan?

I wouldn't consider myself gay/bi but I can see the beauty in some men. Nope I'm not talking about physical or sexual attraction but i can see attributes that perhaps someone would find attractive. This does not make me bi/gay/whatever. I'm pretty sure it's being sexually attracted and active with the same sex that constitutes the label does it not? Has she had heterosexual relationships?

@offbeat Said

no, she hasn't had any yet.she's one of the modern generation that has anxiety issues. seems like every second young person has it. she also has confidence issues. so, no, as yet,no relationship. in fact, i'm a little bit concerned for her when she meets up with a young woman she met on line. hopefully it willgo well.

@cole Said

Has she had any meaningful relationships to date? male or female?

@cole Said

Yeah why does she need to tell them she's going to see a date? And even if she did have to tell them she was going to see a date why does she have to specify gender? I'm thoroughly confused how she determined she was pansexual and now bisexual. It seems she is trying too hard to fit into some niche rather than following her actual desires

@offbeat Said

yeah, I know what you mean Cole, it's like it's a fashionable thing to be as extreme as possible in the sexuality/gender stakes in order to fit in with all the modern f**kwits knocking around today.anyway, she has now decided that she is as ok with pussy as she is with d***. when I get a chance i'm going to ask her how it works ... whether it's 50/50 d*** and pussy oe is one better than the other.

@cole Said

I was reading a story about a new song Rita Ora has released (with others) that the LGBTQ+ bandwagon have jumped upon saying that it's exploiting bisexuality due to the song's words. Twitter was awash with judgement and thunder and fury! Rita Ora who bore the brunt of the backlash even though it has 3 other singers has since came out as being "bi-sexual" or at least admitted to having had relationships with women in the past.

The story went on to mention other stars such as Jessie J who have claimed they are/were bi-sexual (Jessie J went on to claim it was just a "phase" )

This is why normal everyday people are confused, certainly around being Bi (because i believe this is a choice, unlike homosexuality) because the stars they follow feel that it's a marketing label they can use to sell their dreadful warbling and once it's been used they can easily say it's a "phase" or a "fad"

It made me think of this thread.

@offbeat Said

weird isn't it, how they tell the world about their sexual preferences which then means they can now be on the lookout for anything they can feel insulted or offended by... f**king sexuality bores! ...anyway, getting back to the young woman who told me she was bi ... yesterday she told her mum ... who immediately countered with ... 'oh, so that's why you're always banging on about wonder woman!'

@cole Said

Really, that's terribly funny. It was a s*** movie though. Ultimately was the mum cool with it?

@cole Said

Really, that's terribly funny. It was a s*** movie though. Ultimately was the mum cool with it?

@cole Said

Let the bra burning commence!

It's funny that she would immediately attribute a "straight pride" march as a march for only white privileged males. Are there no straight minorities? No straight and proud females anymore?

I don't like marches for any reason. It's great that they feel more safer, more open, it's a good thing but does it really need to be rammed it down everyone's throats?

Anyways, it's good that your friend's mum was ok with it as she should be.