You know when we get married , we only vow to one person that we'll be faithful , honest , and stay with them through sickness and health and all that stuff , but when we divorce it seems like we have to divorce the whole damn family.
I have tried to keep myself on good terms with D.s family but at times it takes everything in me not to just say "f*** off" . I know alot of people end up going through alot of mental stress when it comes to divorce because you may not love your ex anymore but you may indeed cherish his parents so that's a whole different thing to deal with.
My ex mother in law never liked me anyway but now since the divorce she has done everything in her power to downgrade me in my childs eyes. She is constantly calling me and saying mean things. I am not one to take s*** so I just tell her to mind her affairs and I'll mind mine.
It really sucks that you're not only married to the one person but you're married to his whole family. I tiptoed around this b**** for over 17 years I don't have to do that anymore . I do try to keep my thoughts to myself though because I don't want to downgrade my daughters grandmother in front of her , it's not fair to my child.
I just needed to get that out I guess.