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GSnap On March 02, 2019




Over the Rainbow,
#16New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:29:47
@yodogs Said

i need break up help like bad, my gf is like SUPER emotionaly,and she litteraly texts me 24/7, and she is REALLY starting to get on my nervs, any advice?


Just be pointblank and let her know that this isn't working for you anymore. If you'd like to make it work, then have a talk with her about how her constant need for your attention is making you feel very chained and pressured, and smothered, and set aside some time that is just for YOU with no calls, texts, etc. Get her agreement on those times (the timeframes are whatever suits you, but with keeping a compromise in mind that isn't too restrictive for her). If she can't compromise in turn and still does it anyway, then it will be easier for you to let her know why it isn't working and move on.

You are 13, and you might encounter this problem more than once in your life. Might as well get practice in dealing with it now!
GSnap On March 02, 2019




Over the Rainbow,
#17New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:31:11
@raditz Said

My advice? Get used to it. lol



Nah, no guy or gal should ever have to get used to being smothered. Everyone needs space sometimes.
TenaciousDave On April 04, 2021
The Anus Of Satan





Jeffrey Dahmer's Lunchbox,
#18New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:32:03
@raditz Said

My advice? Get used to it. lol



TenaciousDave On April 04, 2021
The Anus Of Satan





Jeffrey Dahmer's Lunchbox,
#19New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:33:00
@GSnap Said

Nah, no guy or gal should ever have to get used to being smothered. Everyone needs space sometimes.



I agree with you but have you ever dated a leech?
GSnap On March 02, 2019




Over the Rainbow,
#20New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:34:09
@TENACIOUSDAVE Said

I agree with you but have you ever dated a leech?



Once, and threw it back in the pond.

I can't deal with that. I need a bit of space.
GSnap On March 02, 2019




Over the Rainbow,
#21New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:36:20
@TENACIOUSDAVE Said

I agree with you but have you ever dated a leech?



I have some g/f's who are clingy as crap and have told them straight up that they are going to succeed in a self fulfilling prophecy. Never letting the guy out of their site and smothering him in texts, calls and emails will be a really good insurance policy that he will get fed up and leave your ass.
TenaciousDave On April 04, 2021
The Anus Of Satan





Jeffrey Dahmer's Lunchbox,
#22New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:38:26
@GSnap Said

Once, and threw it back in the pond.

I can't deal with that. I need a bit of space.



That's what you have to do or they'll suck the life out of you.
Rasputin On March 13, 2020




London, Canada
#23New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:40:48
Tell her you have a medical condition and cannot control your bowels,that should work.
white_swan53 On October 07, 2020




n/a, New Mexico
#24New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 01:51:43
You are 13 and the girlfriend is 15 . You hate break ups and have been 'dumped' by all your other girlfriends. yodogs maybe you should take up playing some kind of sports and leave the girlfriend thing alone for a while . It sounds like just maybe you are not quite ready to settle down with a girlfriend , and honestly , I think that is a good sign and shows some maturity on your part. Girls between the ages of 11 to 16 are about as silly as silly putty , I mean think about it this way , we are talking about someone that will start to get dressed and will try on everything they own at least once some things twice and in the end will wind up wearing the very first outfit they put on . I raised a couple of these creatures I know silly putty when I see it in action . lol
Yodogs On June 23, 2019




Sturgis, South Dakota
#25New Post! Aug 02, 2010 @ 04:47:58
@Rasputin Said

Tell her you have a medical condition and cannot control your bowels,that should work.



that would be funny as hell
vanvasco On April 09, 2012




Hillsborough, New Jersey
#26New Post! Sep 19, 2010 @ 16:45:33
Tell her you only dated her to get to her mom. That will get her to leave you alone
nicperry11 On May 29, 2011




Sydney, Australia
#27New Post! May 29, 2011 @ 20:01:17
Both of you just need to talk and discuss things that might help your gf ease the pain when you try to break-up with her.
JR_Sanford On August 02, 2017




Portland (St. Johns), Oregon
#28New Post! May 29, 2011 @ 20:49:16
@yodogs Said

i need break up help like bad, my gf is like SUPER emotionaly,and she litteraly texts me 24/7, and she is REALLY starting to get on my nervs, any advice?



Hey Dog, Tell her straight up, "This texting is getting to be too much. It's starting to smother me." Do you see the way that's worded, it doesn't attack HER? If she can't take that and gets all emotional on you, then that would be a good sign that she really doesn't care about YOU or how YOU feel. Cut her loose if that's the case.

J.R.
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