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aneil On May 02, 2019




Freeport, Trinidad and Tobago
#16New Post! Jul 12, 2010 @ 22:17:49
@LuckyCharms Said

I don't blame you for not being able to talk to her. I wouldn't be able to. I'd be filled with anger toward her if I were you.

However, as to the forgiveness thing, give it time. It's something that will do you more good than her. It's not good to carry around the bile for a long time. Remember, learn the lesson and then move on. It'll take a bit of time for that though.



as it is, she's busy planning for next semester and she has alot of friends to talk to so i'm sute it's not affecting her.

i'm pretty sure that by mid september my absence would start to affect her and she'll realize how selfish she was.
LuckyCharms On February 13, 2020
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#17New Post! Jul 12, 2010 @ 22:19:10
I know it's really hard not to focus on her. I don't know if I would be able to not do it. I hope though, in time, you'll move beyond this.

Vent, get it out of your system. Talk to your friends, post on here. Just please don't let your anger become something that harms you in the long run.
townie_guy On May 07, 2013

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, United Kingdom
#18New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 20:03:09
Tell her she's a SKET.
CaLyPsO On May 10, 2020
spankable deity





kent, United Kingdom
#19New Post! Aug 01, 2010 @ 20:12:11
reading this it looks like you should just move on and cut all ties as it is hurting you to know her...she obviously has no care for you and is just out to date and have fun...if she is engaged then you were just a bit of fun for her...you deserve to be treated better and should move on xx
aneil On May 02, 2019




Freeport, Trinidad and Tobago
#20New Post! Aug 04, 2010 @ 03:16:44
@townie_guy Said

Tell her she's a SKET.

yeah, she is.

@CaLyPsO Said

reading this it looks like you should just move on and cut all ties as it is hurting you to know her...she obviously has no care for you and is just out to date and have fun...if she is engaged then you were just a bit of fun for her...you deserve to be treated better and should move on xx


as it is, im not too bothered about her now. she deleted me from facebook but i use my friends profile to see hers once in a while.
i think she feels kinda bad that we arent even friends anymore but what could i do? she caused it.

im not gonna talk to her for a while, i think in a few months i want to visit her and see if we could still get along like we used to.
carlstss On January 25, 2014




Derby, United Kingdom
#21New Post! Aug 04, 2010 @ 03:30:25
move on she is just messing you about, cant anyone else see this, she seems to only want you when it suits her so why you wasting time.
aneil On May 02, 2019




Freeport, Trinidad and Tobago
#22New Post! Aug 04, 2010 @ 03:53:20
@carlstss Said

move on she is just messing you about, cant anyone else see this, she seems to only want you when it suits her so why you wasting time.



i'm kinda half way moving on. you see, shes honestly stupid, naive and too idealistic and i think some time apart might not be a bad idea.

i think i just want some time to meet other girls, because i couldnt do that because of her and see if she becomes more mature over time and see if it could work.
charlesdee On August 05, 2010




, United Kingdom
#23New Post! Aug 04, 2010 @ 07:28:14
Good thing you are already moving on dude. I know it's hard. I'm just wishing the best for you.
monkey On October 04, 2020




Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
#24New Post! Apr 29, 2011 @ 23:26:41
Ha, I know how you feel man, I have once dated this girl I thought was the love of my life, she dumped me only a week before Christmas, she left me for another guy, he was a total a*****e though, a complete druggy and a scumbag!
She turned out to be a weirdo though, she was meant to be 'oh so deeply in love' with him but claimed to be married to a chick!
aneil On May 02, 2019




Freeport, Trinidad and Tobago
#25New Post! May 09, 2011 @ 05:02:25
@someone_else Said

I'm confused and I don't want to read a different thread!

So...she told her friend that she's engaged. Is the friend the guy she used to like? Or is that who she said she was engaged to?

And you said "I insist"...does that mean, that is what you think or that you demanded that you be exclusive?



@LuckyCharms Said

I know it's really hard not to focus on her. I don't know if I would be able to not do it. I hope though, in time, you'll move beyond this.

Vent, get it out of your system. Talk to your friends, post on here. Just please don't let your anger become something that harms you in the long run.



@townie_guy Said

Tell her she's a SKET.



@charlesdee Said

Good thing you are already moving on dude. I know it's hard. I'm just wishing the best for you.



@monkey Said

Ha, I know how you feel man, I have once dated this girl I thought was the love of my life, she dumped me only a week before Christmas, she left me for another guy, he was a total a*****e though, a complete druggy and a scumbag!
She turned out to be a weirdo though, she was meant to be 'oh so deeply in love' with him but claimed to be married to a chick!


Well, it's about a year now since that whole incident with Vanna. Summer's settling in and the weather is starting to feel alot like it was last year during that whole incident.

In September she started back talking to me and was apologetic for a while but then somewhere along the line- she tried to blame me for the whole thing so we cut ties.

Later in the year I lost my phone- so i lost all means of contacting her.
As i started to fill my new phone with numbers- i realised how many of the new numbers belong to pretty girls. girls i see around, girls i meet in the line for coffee, girls i want to borrow notes from.

A mutual friend told me that i seem much better off and i totally agree. i don't have any ill will toward her, i think i spend my time and money alot more wisely no and i think i've accomplished alot in the last year.

i don't hate her and i don't like her.
i think i'm totally neutral.

even the whole period of anguish that i went through doesn't have me bothered because i think every experience offers something.
Electric_Banana On June 06, 2021




, New Zealand
#26New Post! May 09, 2011 @ 05:10:03
@aneil Said

Well, it's about a year now since that whole incident with Vanna. Summer's settling in and the weather is starting to feel alot like it was last year during that whole incident.

In September she started back talking to me and was apologetic for a while but then somewhere along the line- she tried to blame me for the whole thing so we cut ties.

Later in the year I lost my phone- so i lost all means of contacting her.
As i started to fill my new phone with numbers- i realised how many of the new numbers belong to pretty girls. girls i see around, girls i meet in the line for coffee, girls i want to borrow notes from.

A mutual friend told me that i seem much better off and i totally agree. i don't have any ill will toward her, i think i spend my time and money alot more wisely no and i think i've accomplished alot in the last year.

i don't hate her and i don't like her.
i think i'm totally neutral.

even the whole period of anguish that i went through doesn't have me bothered because i think every experience offers something.


There's something critically important that you're demonstrating to other people attempting to find romance:

There are many different good girls and guys out there whom you can find equal love for, for many different reasons.

There isn't just one, be-all, soul mate that you're sanity is dependent on and if that soul mate turns out to be a Sket we should just all throw ourselves in the plunker.

It's also good, even if you are in a static relationship, to remain socially active so that you can keep reminding and confirming this to yourself.
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