@horny_lil_devil Said
Me and my girl have been together for a few months now and with some things are so similar and on other topics we are completely different. When it comes to affection and spending time together we have our main difference.
I am alot younger than her, and I like to have affection and a few txts a day etc, whereas she is the complete opposite and is happy to go a few days without talking to me. To make my situation worse we live just over an hour away from each other so seeing each other is difficult depending on work and uni etc.
I feel like I am not being treated fairly in regards to I am not getting what i want out of the relationship. I have brought it up before and she kind of fobs me off, so now I don't know what to do.
a part of me does not want to leave her because I care so much about her and sometimes she is perfect, but the other half of the time I am not getting anything I need from her.
do I stay and put up with it or leave and find someone better for me?
It sounds like you have a lot of free time to mingle and meet other people.
If it's just a matter of the partner not providing enough yet not being a burden, I don't see any reason to not stick around, hang on loosely, and keep your eyes peeled for other chance encounters.
Either the one that you're with will grow closer or you'll meet somebody else.