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x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#1New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:02:04
2 of my friends were a couple for nearly 2 years and they just broke up... But I have no idea what to say to either of them!

Please help so I don't look a prick?!
plebian_angel On April 25, 2012
Intergalactic hussy





a great future,
#2New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:03:50
Just say you're sorry and offer to be there to talk to them. Don't take sides or offer your opinion though. Just listen.
carlstss On January 25, 2014




Derby, United Kingdom
#3New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:04:21
just be compassionate for the pair of them and dont take sides unless obviously one is at fault. I have been with my girlfreind for nearly 3 years and i think i would die if we broke up but we havent had one arguement to date so its going well, but just remind them that there good beutifull people and they will move on eventually ir there could even be a chance they could get back together, good luck hope things turn out ok.
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:06:39
@plebian_angel Said

Just say you're sorry and offer to be there to talk to them. Don't take sides or offer your opinion though. Just listen.



I don't know any details of what happened but I always try not to take sides

I just find myself really awkward in these situations but I consider both of them good friends so it's not like I can say "THAT b****!" or whatever
SparklyKatie On March 07, 2014
\m//O_O\\m/





Sheffield, United Kingdom
#5New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:08:16
If they still wanna be friends with eachother just organise a night out and get drunk. That always helps

That happened with a couple I know that went through that and they're still friends to this day, it'll only be awkward if they make it awkward
x_Laura_x On April 02, 2024




Nowhere, United Kingdom
#6New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:09:58
@SparklyKatie Said

If they still wanna be friends with eachother just organise a night out and get drunk. That always helps

That happened with a couple I know that went through that and they're still friends to this day, it'll only be awkward if they make it awkward



I just have a feeling it's gonna be awkward

Ever notice that "awkward" is awkwardly spelt?
SparklyKatie On March 07, 2014
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Sheffield, United Kingdom
#7New Post! Feb 23, 2010 @ 20:16:05
@x_Laura_x Said

I just have a feeling it's gonna be awkward

Ever notice that "awkward" is awkwardly spelt?


Lol yeah it is isn't it

Just make it clear to them that if they can't be friends and start putting you in the middle of their disputes they will both see less and less of you because you do feel awkward.
sTreetAngeL On January 24, 2022
root tedt ree





in a paradox,
#8New Post! Feb 24, 2010 @ 00:33:59
I would just ask "if you want to talk about anything, Iam here for you"..
and then, just 'be' there for them, wheter it be to talk, or in silence.

Being there is important.
bobthebuilder On March 03, 2010




breezy point, Minnesota
#9New Post! Mar 01, 2010 @ 09:48:24
tell them to get back together already. couples have mini-break-ups all the time. they fight from anywhere between 2 hours to 2 days then make up. the make up sex is also great.
StefJe On October 27, 2010




Leeuwarden, Netherlands
#10New Post! Sep 27, 2010 @ 18:37:14
be neutral,
there must be an advantage that's probably why Sweden always picks it.
galastaray On June 08, 2016
honey bucket


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Honey Bucket, Reunion
#11New Post! Sep 27, 2010 @ 18:40:37
You're not obliged to say anything to them. Why think you had to? I really think you should relax and stop being so tense. You weren't responsible for anything.
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