@iwannano Said
step parents seem to think that they deserve the same respect as real or natural parents without ever earning it. they seem to think they have all powerful authurity and control over a kid or kids just because they are married to the real parent,and your right 'it's just not right
Many step parents are not given the respect they deserve.
They have chosen to take on a big responsibility of looking after, caring for and loving someone elses kids.
It,s something they chose to do because of their love for your parent.
Lots of step parents work very hard to create a happy home, earn money to contribute to the things you have and what is needed in the home, often going without themselves to provide for someone elses kids.
Some are then abused or not given the credit they should be given for trying their best to deal with often rude children who refuse to take down the barrier they have put up, therefore not even giving them a chance.
By actually spending some one to one time getting to know your step parents,you may find that you have more in common than you think and find that they really, genuinely love and care about you.
By spending more time constantly looking for reasons to fault them, no one wins, least of all you.
You mother/father loves this person and their partner has accepted them, kids and all the stresses that come with it.
When you have left home, more than likely your step parent will be loving, supporting your mum/dad for years to come.
They choose to be with you because they want to. Its not something they HAVE to do.