Or three, they only got there because the parents do not communicate enough with their children, to help make an informed choice of study and career. It's the fame and prestige behind that motivates both the parents and children to choose that path.
Those who got there with or without any support from parents and stand out, understand the nature of these studies and the future challenges. They may feel traumatised at at times but keep on reminding themselves the reasons and aim behind, to choose that field of study.
I think that's where self awareness developed at all stages while growing up as a child, comes to play. It also shapes the strength of character, emotional and mental state and helps in using the common sense.
Again, something to do with the upbringing of the parents and any form of education given by the parents. That's just my own findings and opinion - I stand corrected.
apples and oranges . I was on about the ones that may
have a legit reason for being traumatized by the subject /discussion of violence . you on the other hand on about those spoiled brats that have never had much worse then a paper cut and are there because daddy will let them have a piece of plastic with no limit .
okay my apologies , I jumped the gun by replying before I had read your whole post . but it turns out we seem to be reading from the same boo and are on the same page
BTW I found what I was looking for. m My last post before this one has a link in it that has several practicing real world , real time weighing in on this topic. Very informative ad makes sense of this whole n\ wa wa I'm so traumatized spiel .